Could she be pregnant?

[silverscarab]

My gf's first day of periods was 5th of Feb 2010.

We had sex on the 10th and 15th. Both the times I'm damn sure I didn't come inside her. We did not use any protection. On the 10th I withdrew out before I came... And on the 15th I was outside long before I came.

Today morning (22nd Feb) She was complaining of a headache. Could she be pregnant? I haven't discussed this yet with her, but all the information on the internet is driving me crazy.

Oh yea, Her exams are on and she's very nervous about them... Could this headache be cuz of that?

Darn! I'm so confused!

Please help!

[Brandye]

If a penis is in a vagina, pregnancy can result. This is true no matter what form of "protection" is used including withdrawal. Using standard cycles, her next period is due 3 March. In most cases, the first sign of pregnancy is a missed period, not a headache.

Of all the information on sex on the internet, the most important is to not introduce a bare penis into an unprotected vagina until and unless you want to be a parent. Giving that you are stressing so badly about this, I suggest that she get a tube of vaginal jelly, with applicator, and you get a box of condoms and you each learn to use them.

Headaches happen - to women and to men; sometimes during exams and sometimes not; sometimes during pregnancy and sometimes when the man is not pregnant.

Confused? You do not seem to have enough information to be confused, just ignorant of the facts. Get to some of the stickies that deal with contraception and protecting yourself.

[BrunellaFarfalla]

Ive been pregnant and signs never have shown that fast and not that way. For me i felt nauseous after a while of missed period and then i found out but periods 4 me were never regular from my pcos but still a headache was not the 1st sign and it wasnt that soon plus headaches happen to everyone. And pulling out doesnt help, pre ejaculate fluid has sperm. Always use protection but look 4 the way u both work well with. I was forced into birth control which i badly reacted to and i forced condoms on my bf which he didnt do well with lol dont ask. But yes just search for what works 4 u guys.

[Rouge]

I'll add mine on here to save making a new thread.

Could I be pregnant?

Symptoms so far:

Bad cramping a week and a half before expected period
Darkish discharge, bloody. I noticed it around the 8th-9th
Breasts a little bit larger (could be my pill, as it put me up a cup-size earlier this year)
Change in eating habits (I no longer crave junk at all, and it's a sudden switch)
Change in Libido (I haven't been nearly as horny as normal, especially for this week of the pill)

My partner and I were very active before he left for his posting (February 1st) and while I'm on the pill, we are a closed trusting couple, and don't use condoms.

I'm not in a panic about it, but would like to hear opinions until I'm close enough to my expected period to take a test.

[Brandye]

Silverscarab seems to be another who posts a question and is gone.

Rouge: If you are expecting a period, I assume you had one a few weeks ago. That being the case, this does not sound like a pregnancy. If it is, the cramping and discharge likely marked the end of it. It is estimated that nearly half of all conceptions end by the time of the next period. Many women are never aware that they were pregnant for a few days. Without an exam, it simply seems like one of those idiopathic issues our female bodies spring on us once in a while.

[silverscarab]

M here Brandye, don't worry...

She's still not well...
Changes she's show so far include
Headaches in the morning...
Bitter tastes in the mouth...
Loss of appetite...

Will any of the tests work right now?

[Brandye]

Buy two tests of different brands and follow the instructions comletely. They will include the time line for that particular test. Do the tests at least twelve hours apart.

[silverscarab]

Couldn't get the pregnancy tests done cuz she's with her family at the moment...
Moreover, she's all fine since 2 days now... Just slight a headache... Everything else is fine... She also confirmed of getting pimples suddenly which she tells me are the first sign that periods are around the corner... is that true?

[Brandye]

For some women, yes. The hormone balance as the period approaches causes pimple. Not true for all, so do not think every woman you meet with a pimple is getting her period.

[silverscarab]

Alright, No Periods yet...

We've used 3 different pregnancy kits... 2 at the same time and the third on the next day... The closest expiry date was Feb 2011... All were negative...

She still sometimes complains of stomach aches... Pimples still popping up... No other Symptoms of pregnancy yet...

I dunno what to do...