How to deal with mood swings and/or sex during preago?

[jjkool24]

I am about to be a father and i wanted to know how to deal with her mood swings and at the same time please her. i really need to know because every hour on the hour she wants to have sex. then she gets all moody if i say later. need answers please!!!

[dancingdoc2]

More often than not, we hear about the opposite need in which an oversexed guy needs/wants sex frequently (read: much more frequently than his partner). In your situation, J.J., this is probably a hormone driven response; however, please do rule out this needy behavior as insecurity or having a lacking of emotional satisfaction within your relationship.

For the first example, the recommendation often given women is to consider satisfying his needs by "servicing" him without intercourse, and without being turned on to any great degree herself. Turnabout is fair play. See if this approach works with her; however, having said that, please understand that you must address her emotional needs in addition to her physical need.

This may be a phase that will balance itself again, although, if it does not, perhaps she should discuss this with her doctor.

[Brandye]

There are a few predictables in pregnancy and many idiosyncrasies. Many women become very sexual, especially during the second trimester. Then in the third, some will have nothing to do with sex and some still are interested.

Her hormones are swinging wildly, somewhat similar to an adolescent, and her moods will go with them. Mostly, you need to be tolerant and live with it.

[EvilEvilKitten]

She wants to have sex and you're complaining?!?!
If her ob/gyn has said okay, then go for it.
After the child's born, you will have fewer chances to enjoy sex.

[mattc]

My wife is 15 weeks away from giving birth. If we've had sex 10 times while she's been pregnant I'd be surprised. Not that our sex life was all that electric before the pregnancy. My point is go with it, from what everybody tells me you won't be getting any for a while once the baby is born.

[Newwife]

Dude, have sex with your pregnant, horny wife b/c when that baby comes it won't be happening for a while.

It is her hormones, and you telling her later probably makes her feel like you don't want her & that can open up a whole other can of worms for a pregnant woman.

Have great, pregnant sex with your lady! Be happy!

[EvilEvilKitten]

New baby? Hell, dude you'll be lucky to get SLEEP let alone sex.