I need all opinions.!!

[demonbuttercup]

Ahhh gotcha!

[Newwife]

OK. I don't think that us guessing will help. I agree with everyone else, that a DNA test is the only way of knowing.

But if your bf is still with you and excited about the baby and the other guy sounds like an ass, then maybe a DNA test won't be necessary.

[Brandye]

With dates that close, only a dna test will answer the question. We doctors are notorious for being off a week or so because we all use different rules of (thumb?). You have seen your doctor. Now, you two must discuss the options.

[EvilEvilKitten]

I agree with Int.

This was NOT an accident but it was a mistake. Stop hiding the truth from yourself - you wanted to fuck these guys and you didn't care if you got pregnant or not.

WHY did you do that?

As to WHICH male, have amnio done and you will know which male was the child's biological father.

[weasel]

who cares who the real father is at this point, who would you rather be the father. one of my friends is being the father to a kid that might not be his, at this point it's more important who you would rather raise a child with

[EvilEvilKitten]

Very good point, weasel!

[Spicygirl82]

Get a DNA test done.

[theus]

lickxme,

I can honestly say your not the first woman to find herself in this situation. Im glad to hear that your boyfriend is supportive instead of judgemental. It doesnt even sound like the other guy is a real man. It seems like his chances are lower anyway. I will disagree with anyone who says that the paternity of the child is irrelavent. It is a man reponsiblity to take care of his children. However it is a womans responsibility to be honest with a man about the paternity of a child. A childs well being is of upmost importance however a men should always be given his chance to be a father. The true value a father is often understated in society.