is my girl pregant? should i wry?

[PistolSmoke]

ok my gf and i had sex once this month which was three days ago. she had her period bout 3 weeks ago and was due to have her period this Monday May 4th(which she starts the sugar pills). Shes on birth control pill, we used condom and spermicide. She felt like she got her period Thursday with small cramps and is still light till today. should i wry? can it be implantation bleeding? she thinks it might have been from sex that she was bleeding b/c she noticed lil blood after. please help

[demonbuttercup]

BC pills+condom+spermicide?!?!?
I'd sure hope not!

Looking back it seems like almost every month you start a thread about... could my gf be pregnant?

If you took all the precautions above and had 3 forms of BC...there's isn't really anymore you can do!

Possibility of pregnancy is a risk you take everytime you have sex. If you are going to freak out every month.. is it really worth it?!?

Also note, that when looking at the pill pack... like on mine... there are 3 weeks of "active" pills and 1 week of placebo pills in which that is the week you get your period. I start my placebo pills on Sunday but I don't actually start bleeding till say Wed/Thur. So its not automatic...the hormone levels need a few days to drop so the menstruation can start. It doesn't mean she's late.

[PistolSmoke]

no im saying she got it like 3 days early, the day after we had sex for the first time this month, she didnt even start her sugar pills, she had 3 more active pills left when she said she "thinks" she started it. thats what im wryd bout

[demonbuttercup]

Was she taking anything else like antibiotics??
Those interfere w/ the pill and I know if Im sick and I take antibiotics... I will have some spotting.
There have also been times I was a few days from my period and having sex seemed to induce it. Like all that poking around made it kick in.
Just when in doubt... take a home preg test... that's the only way to know for sure.
No one here can say.

[PistolSmoke]

she is not on antibiotics.. i even checked the condoms, they didnt break, is it normal for girls to get period earlier?

[demonbuttercup]

Has she been on the pill a long time? Is it a new brand of pill?
I mean for the most part when a woman is on the pill, their periods are pretty much on a timed cycle. Altho, hormones/cycle aren't something that's always concrete and different variables can throw things off.
Like I said b4, you won't know for sure unless she takes a Preg Test. Might as well get it over w/ instead of worrying about what ifs or why it happened.

[PistolSmoke]

Ok well she said she is bleeding like normal and thinks it's normal. Should I relax now?

[FreeMadness]

Relax a little, come down to Alert Level Orange instead of Alert Level Red. Keep using what you have been, and if it proves to be a regularly occuring thing, then all is probably well. As always, take caution when having sex, and if all else fails, get the "Morning After" pill.

Definate props though for playing it smart though.