I think i might be pregnant!

[Under Experienced]

i spoke to my doctor over the phone an she's booked me in for an appointment on monday an will contact the hospital for me, what i didnt know is that i'll still have to get a scan and i'll get it aborted, as much as im not keen, i just cant keep a baby that wouldnt be brought into the world when me or my bf aren't in stable finance

[Brandye]

You are to be commended for moving rapidly. Your decision is your decision and no one else'opinion matters. What you are doing takes strength. The scan is now standard to make certain they are not dealing with a false pregnancy.

You have learned a lesson the hard way - but we all must sometimes. Our thoughts are with you and we look forward to your coming back and keeping us posted on your recovery.

[Under Experienced]

Thanks brandye, im really scared about it all, but i know its the best thing to do. In different circumstances i would keep it, but right now im not stable enough and i don't care what other people say or think, they aren't in my situation.

I'll keep you posted on how im doing, i just need support from my mate and boyfriend because they are the only ones who know.

[Under Experienced]

thought it was best 2 update, i've got the hospital on tuesday for counciling, my doctor said im about 5-6 weeks gone, so quite far on

[Brandye]

It is hard but keep strong. Thanks for the update.

[demonbuttercup]

Originally Posted by Under Experienced

thought it was best 2 update, i've got the hospital on tuesday for counciling, my doctor said im about 5-6 weeks gone, so quite far on

Oh wow... so you were already pregnant on Valentine's when you thought it happened?? Dang
Good thing you acted quickly.
Thanks for the update! Take care

[Under Experienced]

Yer, so it was even more of a shock for us when we found out. Im really scared an didn't think it would hit me so hard, but im an emotional wreck and keep pushing my bf away from me

[Brandye]

Quite normal reaction, both the emotion and the pushing your b/f away. Whilst in hospital, line up a councelor to see for a while after discharge.

[Under Experienced]

Its horrible, i really wasn't expecting to feel this way. My bf thinks i need anti-depressants, but i think he's just bein really stupid, its talking about it that makes me emotional

[Brandye]

You are dealing with professionals now. Take their advice. Your b/f's input at this point is irrelevant and you may wish to wait until you are back home to speak with him.