Chances?

[boywithbignose]

well earlier today my girlfriend and i, were having a bit of fun with foreplay etc and i got to the point of ejaculation of which a had ejaculated on her just above and little bit below her belly button. we have had a bit of a scare but im sure that she isn't pregnant, as i did not notice anything dripping towards the area :S we both had a bit of a panic, i have said that she perhaps should get the morning after pill just so hopefully it would completely stop any bit of our worrying until her next cycle, we have to wait 2 weeks till her next period and was just wondering what you guys think? do you think there is a good chance she is? and if so or even not so what precautions shall we take to prevent maybe pregnancy or just to prevent us from worrying. p.s we have not had sex we are still virgins.

thanksverymuch please reply to this soon all advice is appreciated.

[Brandye]

If this puts you in such an upset, you need some additional rules including "any time you both have your pants off, a condom will be on you."

There is a very low chance of pregnancy and I would not recommend a morning after pill. If, however, your were exploring her pudenda with the head of your penis, the chances go up a bit.

Just go get some condoms to prevent this happening again. And if she chooses to take you into her, she should vaginal spermicide in there first.

[boywithbignose]

Thank you it is very much appreciated it has calmed us both downs,

So you believe there is no need for morning after pill we are just concerned that perhaps some of the semen may of sliped down but we are not 100% sure, please comment back if you wish thanks.

thankyou

[dancingdoc2]

Of course the flip side is that if you want to ejaculate on her skin, a condom is not going to give you what you want. That said, what is her responsibility in this? At the very least she should be using a vaginal spermicide and the next level would be a diaphragm if she is not on the Pill. Both of you need to take all this seriously and not be so complacent. You are playing adult games and must therefore act responsibly. Your responsibility is to make certain both of you are taking the appropriate protective measures. Do this and you won't have worrisome days and sleepness nights.

Keep in mind that you are in fact playing a version of Russian Roulette; although, with a fully loaded "cannon" vs. a revolver with a single round in the cylinder. Bulletproof the two of you. Anytime semen and precum get within reach of vaginal mucus or the outside entrance of the vagina, sperm can travel inside and up to an egg. A visual inspection to see if any semen is present in her crotch is a start yet not proof that it has not mixed with the mucus or thinned out and continued to run down her skin.

[Ducy]

If you were doing any form of foreplay in which the penis was touching the labia or anywhere near, there is a risk. Many people think that just rubbing the penis against the labia is perfect fine, but there is always a risk because of precum and such. I would invest in condoms and BCP.

[boywithbignose]

it's all well and good explaining the problems that could occur, but none of you seem to of actually reccomended anything that may be ideal to perhaps prevent this becoming anymore than what it is.
So is it wise to maybe take the EC?
and in reply to dancingdoc2; we are taking this seriously if we wasn't i would of not put my time and effort into worrying and seeking advice for what to do in my present situation.

thanks

[Brandye]

I made some very clear recommendations. If you want to avoid this absolutely in future, keep your zipper up.

[Ducy]

What do you mean we recommend nothing to help prevent it becoming more?

Brandye said either wrap it up or zip it up, and I said to invest in condoms, and to get her on BCP to prevent this from happening.

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by boywithbignose

it's all well and good explaining the problems that could occur, but none of you seem to of actually reccomended anything that may be ideal to perhaps prevent this becoming anymore than what it is.
So is it wise to maybe take the EC?

It is too late. Brandye gave you this reply:
"There is a very low chance of pregnancy and I would not recommend a morning after pill."

This is due in part to the little likelihood and that the medication can be rough on a woman. This is not a protective measure you want to do unless absolutely necessary. In your case the window of opportunity has closed.

There is no other solution.

we are taking this seriously if we wasn't i would of not put my time and effort into worrying and seeking advice for what to do in my present situation.

I understand that you are taking this potential problem seriously; however, I was referring to the BIG picture--that of acting responsibly from the get-go. In this regard neither of you were acting responsibly.

[Brandye]

We all get serious when we get the crap scared out of us.