is she?

[IceBear]

ok we have sex alot with out condom and be cumming inside well usally my gf has her peri on the 15th or 18(18th is the longist she ever had with out a peri) SO right now its the 29th and she just got her prei on the 27th but it was VERY light and then last night which is the 28th she was bleeding more but not as bad as usally she bleeds on normal periods BUT we tryed a test on the 27th that night and it came out negative SO today is the 29th and she is bleeding ALOT less and is coming back to normal but she still has her back hurting and going to bathroom alot and i been noticeing she has been eating ALOT and i mean exetrem i mean today she ate pancakes with hot sauce............ so should be be taking another test in a a few days or what?? (as of right now she still has the back hurting and stomce hurting (sorry im trying to type fast and im tired lol) plz get back to me and thanks =) and if your wondering were trying to get a baby lol this is not a story of O i deicied to cum in my gf and i dont want a kid thing lol =) if she is i hope it is a boy =P but it dont matter im happy with both =D

[sera300]

I assume you are trying to have a baby; however, if you are asking these questions, you still have much to learn and this is concerning. And have you both considered marriage & the means to care for a child? Yes, men like to have a son but find they are most happy to have a happy healthy baby, regardless of the gender.

I would say it sounds as if No, she is not pregnant. Just repeat the test again to be certain. You both need to talk & be certain you both are ready to care & support a child together--fully.

[funinthesun]

Originally Posted by IceBear

and if your wondering were trying to get a baby lol this is not a story of O i deicied to cum in my gf and i dont want a kid thing lol =) if she is i hope it is a boy =P but it dont matter im happy with both =D

Out of curiosity, why is it that you were having sex with your previous gf, at the age of ~17 at the earliest, without a condom for so long per your post in sexual health: men? What makes you think that you have changed so much or that the new relationship is so different to be prepared to have a child?

[IceBear]

well the reason why i had sex with my last GF without a condom is becuase she cant get pregant somthing about her eggs and stuff like that cant remeber what it is called and yea i was 17 when i was with her turthfully i dont know why and right now i been dateing my (gf now) for like year and 3 months (mayby 4 now) but whatever lol at first we used condoms and then we both decied that we not use condoms anymore and since then she still cant get prego..... somthing is that saying somthing is wrong with me? yea we live with each other and her mom is not the type that is going to kill me i know were still young but at least im out of college and into a very good working pay job to support a child =) (she dont work)

[sera300]

NEVER TRUST ANY WOMAN WHO TELLS YOU THEY CANNOT GET PREGNANT! THIS IS RULE #1.

Okay why are you not looking to get married yet want to have a child? How do you plan on being a parent to the child [helping with raising the kid] not just work? House? Cars? Education? Clothing? Food? Etc.

[raez]

You two clearly have a lot to learn about pregnancy and child bearing before you have any business having kids. She would not be showing the signs of pregnancy yet that you seem to think you are seeing, such as eating a lot.

Just because you are apparently out of college and working does not mean you have the maturity and abilities necessary to raise a child. You should consider the fact that you are still 19 and at an age where people experience a lot of growth and change, are you sure that you are ready to devout your life to your girlfriend and a child? These are things you should be considering before worrying about trying to get pregnant.