period, or no? and firtility q

[killerJade]

Ok so my boyfriend and I had a condom "malfunction" when I was ovulating, then I got my period when I was supposed to, but instead of it being heavy and lasting for seven days, it was heavy for the first two days then I barely spotted for two more days and that was it. They say if you're preg then u might have a light period but mine was heavy at first, and I haven tested. I'm always right on and my period is always the same, is it likely it was just a fluke, or something else? That was last month and this month we didn't use anything while I was ovulating this weekend. I take my basal so I know when I'm ovulating. My other q is: we're both on methadone and smokers, but I've been preg before, are we both possibly much less firtile right now? We aren't exactly trying, but we're not exactly trying not to either.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by killerJade

Ok so my boyfriend and I had a condom "malfunction" when I was ovulating, then I got my period when I was supposed to, but instead of it being heavy and lasting for seven days, it was heavy for the first two days then I barely spotted for two more days and that was it. They say if you're preg then u might have a light period but mine was heavy at first, and I haven tested. I'm always right on and my period is always the same, is it likely it was just a fluke, or something else?

***Too difficult to tell, get a pregnancy test and do it...add a spermicidal jelly as well. Could be a fluke since there is not defined exact month, they vary.

That was last month and this month we didn't use anything while I was ovulating this weekend. I take my basal so I know when I'm ovulating. My other q is: we're both on methadone and smokers, but I've been preg before, are we both possibly much less firtile right now? We aren't exactly trying, but we're not exactly trying not to either.

This statement I find really concerning. Methadone? Not to mention smoking but cigs are on the bottom of this list comparatively to Methadone. What are you thinking? Both of you get clean, stay clean, drug free, rid of personal issues, then think about marriage & kids. A child does not need to be born addicted.

[Brandye]

Your system is a bit messed up by the stuff in it. Go to a doctor or women's clinic, lay out all the facts and get tested. You are certainly not trying not to. Get the drugs out of your sytem before trying (or allowing yourself) to become pregnant.