Signs of Pregnancy?

[PistolSmoke]

is there any signs of preganacy within a month of having sex? i used a condom and pulled out, no condoms broke, what can be the chances of her getting pregnant?

[dancingdoc2]

Hmm, let me see if I have this matter straight: I'd be asking questions about what to do during these next nine months as well as questions about adoption. Seems better to me to be "inconvenienced" for a few months after which the baby has a fair chance of living a normal life.

[dkrk8706]

no, wait let me get this straight... she went off of birth control purposely? and you willingfully and knowingly had sex unprotected and now are worried about pregnancy? wow, who saw that one coming! you should take responsibility for your actions and if she is pregnant try adoption and give the kid a chance to live i mean damn, you knew what you were doing

[Brandye]

Of course stopping the pill affects the cycle. She could ovulate within forty-eight hours. And some women do begin to have symptoms within a month of conception. Not significant but signs, nevertheless.

Sounds to me that neither of you know what you are doing and you would be better off to get two pregnancy tests (different brands) and she should administer them at least twelve hours apart.

With those results figure out what each of you wants from life.

[PistolSmoke]

we used condoms and noone of them broke, i just get wry'd that concdoms might have tiny lil holes that sperm get thru or something and i pulled out as well. im just freakin thats all. if the condom broke will i notice it? i even put water in them after to see if their were any leaks

[katiebug]

Hi,

If you are this worried about pregnancy, and this unprepared - I suggest you stop having sex until you feel you would be ready to face the "what ifs" - such as an unplanned pregnancy. No matter how careful you are, there is always the chance that it COULD happen. Obviously the only way to prevent pregnancy 100% is to never have sex.

You should discuss this possibility with her and come up with a "what if" plan, at the very least. If she ever does become pregnant, it will be helpful to know how to react, and how she will react (will she even want or agree to an abortion? will she want to keep the baby or give it up for adoption?). Your life can change in an instant, it's really not worth it to mess around with the possible consequences that are at stake here. Think about making that mistake and then having to face your parents, or hers...if that doesn't scare you then I don't know what will.

If you'd like to hear it from someone who knows, please read my other post "My story - in shock." You never think it can happen to you until it does!!

[PistolSmoke]

im sry to here that. gl with the baby.

she is ok with abortion but i know theres mental stress to it as well and i dont want her going thru that. i pulled out with the condom and i also put water in it to see if there were leaks and there were none. it was the first time we had it without birthcontrol and it will be the last!! idk im scared, shes really not freaking out but i am cuz i wry to much sometimes.


this happen about 2-3 weeks ago. will she feel any changes to her body with 3 weeks past? her peroid should come up next week or so

[Wahoowa]

just wait until she is due for her period. most likely she'll have it when she's meant to (especially since she's not stressing out over it like you are). no need to worry unless her period doesn't show up since you're already out of the plan b range.

and you are "worried" not "wry'd". i've never even seen that abbreviation before. i heartily suggest using spell check...

[PistolSmoke]

yes im WORRIED lol. would she be able to feel something diffrent about herself after 3 weeks?

[Brandye]

Possibly but not likely unless she has missed a period. And you have a messed up view of condoms. Most condom "failures" are a result of sperm escaping around the open end. Generally, if a condom it is noticeable as soon as you withdraw.