Can Someone Answer This Please??

[CleverName]

Well those are all signs of pregnancy... Why wait to get the test? A baby is a life changing thing.

[demonbuttercup]

Yea the waiting and "not knowing" is the worse part.
Then you start stressing b/c those signs can also be for PMS... so then you think your pregnant...and the stress delays your period...and then you REALLY think you may be prego.
Just take a test... the answer will be the same whether you take it today or next week.

[Bipolar_Bitch]

dude my boyfriend is an a**hole! he just dumped me for a chick who doesn't even like him. The worst part about this because he knows that i might be pregnant. i hate him!

[lnt1103]

Yeah not to be unfeeling, but this imho is precisely one reason condoms and other BC exist in the first place. If you're still at an age where your parents have this much impact on you, he's at an age where this possibility will inevitably freak him out and he'll jump ship.

Also, fear of what the answer will be is NEVER an excuse for not finding out. YOU MUST FIND OUT!!!!! Knowledge is power and the only way to get ANY power to deal with pregnancy is to know ASAP!!!!

Having said all that, I AM sorry he left you. I know it hurts.

[Bipolar_Bitch]

yeah i knew that much already but i really can't take the pregnancy test unless im late for my period. thats when im gunna do it. it's ok. i'm probably better off without him and i could do better. Life will go on as we speak. I hope Karma reall bites him in the a**!

[demonbuttercup]

Aww man... that sucks to hear BB

I guess that just shows what kind of person he is.
Lets hope you are NOT prego.
AND.... if after he finds out the test is negative...and tries to crawl back... please do not even consider the idea!

[Bipolar_Bitch]

It's all good really. I saw the girl he dumped me for and she looks like someone took a dump on her face and as bitchy as it sounds its true. Like even his whole family was like WTF for breaking up with me just like that. They told me I was the best he ever had and I was there for him through alot of his bull****. So, it's his loss. And even if he asks for me back there wont be a second chance. Pregnancy or no pregnancy. Guys like him never change. I'm not the first girlfriend of his to wonder if they were pregnant.

[sarah_rsl]

Originally Posted by Bipolar_Bitch

It's all good really. I saw the girl he dumped me for and she looks like someone took a dump on her face and as bitchy as it sounds its true. Like even his whole family was like WTF for breaking up with me just like that. They told me I was the best he ever had and I was there for him through alot of his bull****. So, it's his loss. And even if he asks for me back there wont be a second chance. Pregnancy or no pregnancy. Guys like him never change. I'm not the first girlfriend of his to wonder if they were pregnant.

I'm actually stunned by your logic. you're parents don't want you having sex or using birth control. So you decided to meet them halfway and reject the birth control but have sex anyway

Look I'm sorry about you breaking up with your bf but you have more serious problems. You need to get a grip of your life and sort out your birth control. Actually No1 you need to find out if your pregnent, go and see your obgyn and get checked out first, this will serve to show if your pregnent as well as a check up to see what forms of birth control are appropriate.

If you're not using birth control then don't have sex, it's not complicated .

[Bipolar_Bitch]

you don't understand. I want to get birth control like the pill. But it's kinda hard going behind their backs and doing it. They find out EVERYTHING! Not to mention the fact that I'm the only child. It's ridiculous! Yeah if it ends up I'm pregnant yeah it's a bitch but hey like I'm aware of the consequences there are of having sex. But I don't plan to find out until I miss my period. It's supposed to come between now and sunday

[lnt1103]

Geez. Go to the grocery store and get an over the counter early preg test. These can be used up to 5 days before your period is supposed to come. Screw the fear of what the answer is going to be, cuz we all know that's why you're hedging, and get the damn test. At some point, you are going to have to grow up, and your parents are going to have to deal with that fact. Be the adult you're trying desperately to be and take the responsibility, and the ramifications that come along with it.