Can Someone Answer This Please??

[Bipolar_Bitch]

yeah i know. Honestly from talking to his mom and getting to know his family. They are so laid back about that kind of thing. But yeah, i really dont want to become a mom. The only thing that's keeping me from calling the free clinic is my parents. My parents are hardcore Christians and my mom especially is anti-birth control. She told me if she ever saw them in my possession that she would severely punish me and all that bull. She believes that sex is sacred and it should only be shared between two people in the bonds of marriage but I don't believe that. So I just don't want any crap from my parents. Thats the only thing thats keeping me from doing it.

[dancingdoc2]

Until you are self sufficient, autonomous, and living on your own, you pretty much have to follow the rules of whose ever house you are residing in. That said, while you may disagree with your parents religious and/or moral values, please do not call what they have to offer you in advise CRAP. There job is to raise you and any other siblings and get you to adulthood with an education and some values of your own.

IF you are going to play adult games then you best be prepared for the consequences and act responsibly. Arrogance and self-centeredness as your screen name suggests are rather unbecoming qualities. As mad as your mother might become upon finding contraceptives, I'm sure she would be much more displeased if she learned that you were pregnant. The thought of having to raise you and your baby can put any adult who has nearly accomplished their job (with you) in an emotional slump.

[demonbuttercup]

Yea but can you imagine the wraith you would face if she found out you were prego?!?!?
Plus even if she found out... she'd punish you...you'd serve your time... then it would be over.... a kid is a lifetime of responsibility.

Unless your mom snoops a lot... she won't find them... and the clinic won't be telling them.

How many bros/sis you have? if your mom is anti BC?

[Bipolar_Bitch]

umm how does my screen name suggest im arrogent and self-centered? do you actually know me personally? I think not. and to answer the other question i am the only child. My mom was infertile and so my mom and dad adopted me. She believes birth control is unatural. It some stupid religious crap. But my boyfriend's sister is taking me to the free clinic so I'll have a way of getting there.

[demonbuttercup]

Maybe your mom's beliefs stem more from her infertility than religion???

I can only imagine how hard it must be to want a child sooo much but yet see young women around you doing everything to prevent that and/or having abortions...etc.
Also, I am sure your parents are much more protective of you since they had to go through so much to get you! you are their miracle.

That's good that your b/f sister is taking you... I am sure you can relate to her better and such.

There are times when you should do as your parents tell you... but if you feel strongly against some of their beliefs (such as sex before marriage)...then you also have to be responsible.
If your mom said...don't ride motorcycles..they are dangerous...but yet you wanted to anyhow... one would hope you would wear a helmet

[CleverName]

Originally Posted by Bipolar_Bitch

yeah i know. Honestly from talking to his mom and getting to know his family. They are so laid back about that kind of thing. But yeah, i really dont want to become a mom. The only thing that's keeping me from calling the free clinic is my parents. My parents are hardcore Christians and my mom especially is anti-birth control. She told me if she ever saw them in my possession that she would severely punish me and all that bull. She believes that sex is sacred and it should only be shared between two people in the bonds of marriage but I don't believe that. So I just don't want any crap from my parents. Thats the only thing thats keeping me from doing it.

In my opinion, you shouldn't let the beliefs of others affect you, even if they are your parents. You should, however, respect thier beliefs but don't allow them to force you into making an unsafe desicion like unprotected sex, unless of course you believe in that as well. I would just tell them straight up that you feel differently about the subject, and don't think you should have to be persecuted for your own beliefs. Besides, according to christianity, all sin can be forgivin anyways. (not saying its a sin, just looking at it from a religous perspective)

Now, if you do believe in doing as your parents say, then disregaurd all of that. I am all for sticking to what YOU truely believe in.

[Bipolar_Bitch]

yeah. My parents are a little nuts. But they know were I stand with the whole sex issue. I guess it's just hard for them to see their only daughter be sexually active. Especially since they waited until they were married

[CleverName]

Maybe have a sit down and really talk about it with them?

[Ducy]

Little off topic but the weed lowering your sperm count....Yea you would need to smoke about 10 pounds of weed through your penis to actually lower it enough to not get someone pregnant. It may make it harder, but smoking a blunt every day isnt going to be the same as him having a vasectomy.

[Bipolar_Bitch]

Oh, well i didn't know that. I just thought it would lower your sperm count the same way cigarettes do. Idk. But Im hoping im not pregnant. Lately Ive been cramping and wanting a bunch of foods and my breasts have been somewhat tender on and off and they appear to be bigger than usual. but I haven't gotten my period yet. Im afraid to take the test. Im not supposed to get my period for like 2 days.