need some advice please

[skullface74]

i need some advice please i need to know if a female can get pregance however it spelled from cumming once inside her im saying she will and may gf saying she wont if she doesnt cum so i need some advice about this and if none of this make sense i am sorry i hate grammer alot

[sera300]

Okay, I am a bit lost as to what you are asking. You are a male who had unprotected intercourse and ejaculated inside her? She states she cannot get pregnant if she did not orgasm?

If this is what you are saying; yes, one ejaculation can cause an unplanned pregnancy if there is no proper use of birth control used.

Grammar may be not you best point. However, when you write try to make your question more clear. It helps many try to figure out what you are asking.

[skullface74]

yea i am a male that had unprotected intercourse but didn't ejaculate inside her she wants me to but i am wondering if ejaculateing inside her once if she doesnt orgasm would she? and thanx for the infor on making what i say clear it kinda hard for me to that

[sera300]

Unprotected sex, meaning no condom & her not using either a spermicide or BCP's, there can be sperm contained in the pre-ejaculation fluid. That is the leaking you notice from your penis...slightly drippy. This can cause one sperm to make contact with an egg.

Now, to ejaculate inside her, yes you still are at risk if you are not using birth-control. Her having an orgasm has no bearing on her fertility.

Hold off on any thing until you read about birth control and proper info on this site. No semen near her vaginal fluids with out a condom and her using a spermicide.

Both of you must take control of this you use condoms to protect from diseases and as a back up to her birth-control method. She must clearly demonstrate the use of BCP's or Spermicide from a tube or VCF (Vaginal contraceptive films). I would not allow yourself to be put into this position--her lack of knowledge and you also need to get yours up to speed to be safe.

[skullface74]

yea i notice thx for the info i need and i been useing condoms but trojins however it spelled not sure about spermicide need to get that type of stuff though it would be really helpful

[sera300]

Originally Posted by skullface74

yea i notice thx for the info i need and i been useing condoms but trojins however it spelled not sure about spermicide need to get that type of stuff though it would be really helpful

You use condoms and she uses a spermicide--they are available over the counter. And just so you are aware, spermicide on the condom is not enough. She needs to buy the spermicidal foam and follow instructions in the package.

Additionally, she should see a Gynecologist, for a check up, prior to sexual contact. Good luck and read around the site plenty of good information on the topics & you are welcome.

[skullface74]

yea i was planing on reading up on alot of info on this and another question me and my gf had intercouse before with out a condom and it been way over 9 weeks and she isnt pregent however it spelled or is it aposs to be 9 months i am not sure

[sera300]

Originally Posted by skullface74

yea i was planing on reading up on alot of info on this and another question me and my gf had intercouse before with out a condom and it been way over 9 weeks and she isnt pregent however it spelled or is it aposs to be 9 months i am not sure

Much depends on if she has had her period or not. If there is a question get a pregnancy test and have her do it. If there is any question of a potential pregnancy, she needs to see a doctor ASAP.

[sera300]

Here is a good site to begin looking into:

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/

[skullface74]

she still get her period i just got to wait to see near the end of this month to see if she still get her period or not if not then yea ill make sure she goes to a doctor asap and thx for all the help