need some advice please

[demonbuttercup]

Right, just b/c you had unprotected sex and she didn't get pregnant... doesn't mean it's safe... just means you are lucky!
Like Sera said... the woman having an orgasm or not doesn't affect the outcome of pregnancy.

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by sera300

You use condoms and she uses a spermicide--they are available over the counter. And just so you are aware, spermicide on the condom is not enough. She needs to buy the spermicidal foam and follow instructions in the package.

You can purchase these items either through the drug department of a supermarket, or, a regular pharmacy.

Additionally, she should see a Gynecologist, for a check up, prior to sexual contact. Good luck and read around the site plenty of good information on the topics....

Please begin your reading and adding to your knowledge beginning with the many articles listed in the Index:

--BEGIN HERE--w/a Partial INDEX of Sex Info 101 Sex Ed. Topics

The two of you need lots of information before you begin to play adult games and have to answer for any consequences. Your girlfriend's notion that she cannot become pregnant unless she achieves a climax is just the sort of misinformation that can lead to an unwanted pregnancy. Case and point: For generations women rarely had orgasms, due in part to the Puritan ethic and religious and cultural beliefs; due in part to just not understanding how beneficial they are; due in part to not wanting to get wet and sticky which was viewed as unladylike. Nowadays even though we know more and know better, women often do not have orgasms yet whether they do or do not, the population continues to increase. I'd like the two of you to please read Brandye's articles on female orgasms and "Am I Ready for Sex".

As nurse Sera states, your girlfriend should visit with her doctor before engaging in intercourse. There are many reasons why, and a good Q&A session is among them.

Please do not be in a rush to have intercourse. As good as it is, it mainly pleases the psyche. A good Foreplay session is often much more enjoyable on a physical level! Regardless, spend plenty of time and plenty of sessions working up to this level of intimacy. If you already have, then continue by doing your homework so that your love making sessions will be all that they can be.

Welcome to the SI101 Board and its Forums. I hope you enjoy participating.

[Gorgeous Mistake]

May I ask how old you are??