Sex during pregnancy

[GothicVixen]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

If she's a girl friend and NOT your wife, why are you getting her pregnant?? If she's now pregnant, why is she still your girl friend and NOT your wife?? Step up or step off, dude - after signing up for child support directly debited from your paychecks.

Some women enjoy sex during pregnancy and some do not. During each of mine, I was more likely to rip your face off and make you eat it than to enjoy anything sexual. For me, that's saying something since my sex drive always has been extremely high. There is no way to tell in advance - you just have to go through it.

Lol lighten up to moden living, we aren't back in the 1800s!!
Marrage isn't important, love and companionship is!

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On the subject, just find a comfy postition and have it while you still can, as soon as that child comes along, you will rarely find the time to appreicate each other

[gigi]

Something to keep in mind -- pregnancy can be a difficult time and watching your body change often leaves women feeling fat and ugly. You not wanting to have sex with her is very likely to be taken personally, even if you tell her differently. I would say that it is extremely important to remain fully intimate with her as much to make her feel wanted and loved as to satisfy her desires.

[Carrina]

Originally Posted by GothicVixen

Lol lighten up to moden living, we aren't back in the 1800s!!
Marrage isn't important, love and companionship is!

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On the subject, just find a comfy postition and have it while you still can, as soon as that child comes along, you will rarely find the time to appreicate each other

Honestly i believe that preganacy has alot to do with marriage. Yes, things happen, thats life. At the age of 22 i gave birth to a baby boy. He seemed healthy however 2 months later i had another story to say.. My son had many problems, Everything from extreme Hypotonia to Later being Dignoised with Autism and MR. Im not sure that many "relantionships" Can handle what we did at a very young age. Some couples break up when something like this happens. We have a great marriage and maybe its not for everyone to be marriaged.

bah i stop

Having sex during a pregancy really depends on the woman. I couldnt after a certain point. The baby would kick him and then we tryed different things and then the baby would kick me. That was enough lol.

[demonbuttercup]

I know some men get turned off b/c before they saw their partner as a "woman" and a lover... now they see her as a "mother" and it's hard to distinguish that just b/c she is a mother.. she is also a woman w/ needs.

I had the same question once before about breastfeeding. If you enjoy nipple stimulation during sex, etc... then when you have a baby....how do you completely change your mindset as to that the breast is just a baby feeder...and then once the baby is weened... how do you go back to feeling sexual about it?!??

It's kind of creepy in a way! lol

[playgirl239]

Originally Posted by Brandye

There is a sticky on Sex and Pregnancy. Maybe you can read it?

u look like u have bannanas fot boobs get HELP.

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by playgirl239

u look like u have bannanas fot boobs get HELP.

is there an english translation available for that statement?????