Hello,
Me and my girlfriend have been going out for some time now, Were both 15 yrs old. We have done many things in bed, Oral, Hand, the usuall makeout stuff , Were both virgins and we started talking about penetration, The problem is shes really small, she's 4.5 ft tall, and has a really small vagina, Me, Im 5.3 and Im about 7 inches long and about 5.5 inches Girth..And I think thats a bad thing, I dont want to hurt her..I heard fingering can loosen the vagina and reduce pain. But I also heard it can break the hymen "A.K.A, The Cherry" I dont want to break that with a finger, It seems alot less..Romantic or memorial for a woman to lose her hymen from a measly finger.
How badly does it hurt a woman?
Does it hurt the whole time?
Will I tear her vagina?
Thanks for your support and I look forward to replys.
girls often break their hymen long before the have ever had sex (i.e. tampons, ruff activties), the actual breaking of the hymen is not what is special as the actual act of sex, after all it is a very intimate thing A.K.A "making love." As for "popping the cherry" it's going to hurt no matter what you do, if you ease into it and she is relaxed it won't hurt so bad. but don't go just off on my advice there is also the virginity and pain thread you can look at, i'm sure the doc has some good advice
Ok, Thanks alot for your support, Ill look into the thread and read about it.
Please read what I just wrote a few minutes ago on this thread:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/sexinfo101_com_news/17469-on_top_the_fir...
"on top...the first time?!?
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If you have additional questions or concerns after reading my post, please ask.