> how can i give a complete satisfactions to a girl??
Begin by knowing what Brandye has taught us: That each person is responsible for his/her own orgasms. All any of us can hope to accomplish is to help facilitate them.
How do you define "complete satisfaction"? What exactly are you asking to have an answer to?
Are you inquiring about orgasms? Physical stimulation? Emotional arousal? Peace of mind? All of the above?
If all of the above, then the process begins with Peace of mind and progressing backward thru the list. Peace of mind is paramount to a woman's ability to become aroused. So, doing those household tasks that need to be done without being asked, is how to help her become receptive to other things. Emotional arousal in addition to the above, means addressing her needs to be acknowledged, appreciated, accepted, and having other needs met. Physical stimulation means devoting lots of time to arousal. All too often guys believe that fooling around and making out for half an hour or more is either boring and unnecessary and what really counts is genital manipulations. OH, HOW WRONG YOU ARE if you think this is true. While we guys can be UP and ready at the mere thought of an orgasm, not so the fairer gender. If there is anything a guy's sex education must include it is this.
I recommend that you go to the Index and read every one of the articles more than once--even if you do not at first see the relevance for some as it pertains to you. Knowledge is empowering and all too often, guys do not spend the necessary time preparing for what they want most to have happen without a snag.
After you explain what you specifically want to have answers to, we will be better able to help. Til then, I hope this has been helpful.
There is no way to answer that question. The best you can do is study and seek to understand but, if she is not ready, you cannot come close. Her satisfaction is not your responsibility.
I haven't had sex yet, but I have an idea about what women would love. Sex is...pretty much the ultimate connection one feels towards another person. With sex there's so much to be involved in and with. Sex is the ultimate release of passion and other sorts of emotions.
It's all about the connection that one feels with the body. That's my take. If one person is not made to feel comfortable with their bodies, then it makes it rather difficult (but still possible) to enjoy sex.
Think about it...as a woman, I despise commercials that have this idea of how a woman should be, and then women are made to feel undesirable/inadequate etc...
Complete satisfaction by your means may not mean the same thing for her.
Make a woman feel desirable, love her for who she is, for her body...and ultimately, her gift to not only you, but all of humanity.
You'll have to excuse me for this view, I believe everything is intrinsically connected in life. I also have a reason to believe that it all begins with sex, more so intimacy, but I hope my explanation helps a bit. :)
you'd have to ask your woman that. like dd2 referenced to brandye "we are all responsible for our own orgasms/pleasures" but we rely on one another to unhinge that.
[QUOTE=sensualGoddess;253329]you'd have to ask your woman that. like dd2 referenced to brandye "we are all responsible for our own orgasms/pleasures" but we rely on one another to unhinge that.
so talk to her about it. guide her in.[/QUOTE]
i am agree with you. but you know last time i have a sex with a girl and i was unable to satisfy her and now i am going to marry so i am worrying. what do you thing is that was any incident or a problem??
Most of your questions will find answers when you read all of the articles listed in the Index, found at the top of the main screen. A lot of what you are asking us for information about can be learned from the woman in your life by asking questions, providing information, and, exploring and learning together.
Communication is very important as is providing feedback (verbal and non-verbal) to each other on how you are responding to kisses and caresses and for what you may need now/next.
> last time i have a sex with a girl and i was unable to satisfy her and now i am going to marry so i am worrying.
Please read the articles and more than once. Whether you and your girlfriend read them together or separately is not important. What is important is that the two of you discuss what you have read and learn.
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;253347]Most of your questions will find answers when you read all of the articles listed in the Index, found at the top of the main screen. A lot of what you are asking us for information about can be learned from the woman in your life by asking questions, providing information, and, exploring and learning together.
Communication is very important as is providing feedback (verbal and non-verbal) to each other on how you are responding to kisses and caresses and for what you may need now/next.
> last time i have a sex with a girl and i was unable to satisfy her and now i am going to marry so i am worrying.
Please read the articles and more than once. Whether you and your girlfriend read them together or separately is not important. What is important is that the two of you discuss what you have read and learn.[/QUOTE]
i've heard, probably from EEK and Brandye that exercising increases stamina...but im not sure how to help with the delay of ejaculation, my pleasure is speeding it up to please my man! :)
Sweet, I asked you to read the familiarize yourself with the articles listed in the Index. Your question about how to last longer is answered in one of the articles.
Please look around the site, do site searches using either of the two search engines, and read the articles that we've spent a lot of time and effort writing.
[QUOTE=shychick07;253753]i've heard, probably from EEK and Brandye that exercising increases stamina...but im not sure how to help with the delay of ejaculation, my pleasure is speeding it up to please my man! :)[/QUOTE]
will you want to suggest any special exercises to increase stamina..
check this article about sexual positions [url=http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/]Sex Positions - Best Kama Sutra Tips and Sexual Positions - Cosmopolitan.com, hope you will find some answers to your questions :)
[QUOTE=fat-sam;254017]check this article about sexual positions [url=http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/]Sex Positions - Best Kama Sutra Tips and Sexual Positions - Cosmopolitan.com, hope you will find some answers to your questions :)[/QUOTE]
hi i have read. really this one is so helpful. very informative link.
thanks
Far too many people think positions are the answer to keeping sex alive. It isn't. Making sex into something overwhelmingly good is more than just this toy, or that position. It is about communicating, revealing, playing, igniting and you can't do that if you remain bridled, cabined, cribbed, and confined by insecurities, doubts, and other handicaps.
Guys - give the lady room to express herself.
Ladies - cut loose and give the man what for.
I agree with you that sex is not just positions that we use, it's rather more... and intimacy, but still various sex poses can spicy up sexual life and give a new stimulus to a relationship :D
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;254029]Far too many people think positions are the answer to keeping sex alive. It isn't. Making sex into something overwhelmingly good is more than just this toy, or that position. It is about communicating, revealing, playing, igniting and you can't do that if you remain bridled, cabined, cribbed, and confined by insecurities, doubts, and other handicaps.
Guys - give the lady room to express herself.
Ladies - cut loose and give the man what for.[/QUOTE]
Amen to that. There's more to it than the physical aspect. So much more.
> how can i give a complete satisfactions to a girl??
Begin by knowing what Brandye has taught us: That each person is responsible for his/her own orgasms. All any of us can hope to accomplish is to help facilitate them.
How do you define "complete satisfaction"? What exactly are you asking to have an answer to?
Are you inquiring about orgasms? Physical stimulation? Emotional arousal? Peace of mind? All of the above?
If all of the above, then the process begins with Peace of mind and progressing backward thru the list. Peace of mind is paramount to a woman's ability to become aroused. So, doing those household tasks that need to be done without being asked, is how to help her become receptive to other things. Emotional arousal in addition to the above, means addressing her needs to be acknowledged, appreciated, accepted, and having other needs met. Physical stimulation means devoting lots of time to arousal. All too often guys believe that fooling around and making out for half an hour or more is either boring and unnecessary and what really counts is genital manipulations. OH, HOW WRONG YOU ARE if you think this is true. While we guys can be UP and ready at the mere thought of an orgasm, not so the fairer gender. If there is anything a guy's sex education must include it is this.
I recommend that you go to the Index and read every one of the articles more than once--even if you do not at first see the relevance for some as it pertains to you. Knowledge is empowering and all too often, guys do not spend the necessary time preparing for what they want most to have happen without a snag.
After you explain what you specifically want to have answers to, we will be better able to help. Til then, I hope this has been helpful.
Practice and don't be scared to ask what you can do better. Just the fact you asked makes me think you have the right mind set.
There is no way to answer that question. The best you can do is study and seek to understand but, if she is not ready, you cannot come close. Her satisfaction is not your responsibility.
thanks for your suggestion but i want to know that what girls love so much during the sex time.
You know what?
I haven't had sex yet, but I have an idea about what women would love. Sex is...pretty much the ultimate connection one feels towards another person. With sex there's so much to be involved in and with. Sex is the ultimate release of passion and other sorts of emotions.
It's all about the connection that one feels with the body. That's my take. If one person is not made to feel comfortable with their bodies, then it makes it rather difficult (but still possible) to enjoy sex.
Think about it...as a woman, I despise commercials that have this idea of how a woman should be, and then women are made to feel undesirable/inadequate etc...
Complete satisfaction by your means may not mean the same thing for her.
Make a woman feel desirable, love her for who she is, for her body...and ultimately, her gift to not only you, but all of humanity.
You'll have to excuse me for this view, I believe everything is intrinsically connected in life. I also have a reason to believe that it all begins with sex, more so intimacy, but I hope my explanation helps a bit. :)
thanks for your kind opinion.
is there any special styles or any special tricks for the girl`s satisfactions???
you'd have to ask your woman that. like dd2 referenced to brandye "we are all responsible for our own orgasms/pleasures" but we rely on one another to unhinge that.
so talk to her about it. guide her in.
[QUOTE=sensualGoddess;253329]you'd have to ask your woman that. like dd2 referenced to brandye "we are all responsible for our own orgasms/pleasures" but we rely on one another to unhinge that.
so talk to her about it. guide her in.[/QUOTE]
i am agree with you. but you know last time i have a sex with a girl and i was unable to satisfy her and now i am going to marry so i am worrying. what do you thing is that was any incident or a problem??
Most of your questions will find answers when you read all of the articles listed in the Index, found at the top of the main screen. A lot of what you are asking us for information about can be learned from the woman in your life by asking questions, providing information, and, exploring and learning together.
Communication is very important as is providing feedback (verbal and non-verbal) to each other on how you are responding to kisses and caresses and for what you may need now/next.
> last time i have a sex with a girl and i was unable to satisfy her and now i am going to marry so i am worrying.
Please read the articles and more than once. Whether you and your girlfriend read them together or separately is not important. What is important is that the two of you discuss what you have read and learn.
[QUOTE=dancingdoc2;253347]Most of your questions will find answers when you read all of the articles listed in the Index, found at the top of the main screen. A lot of what you are asking us for information about can be learned from the woman in your life by asking questions, providing information, and, exploring and learning together.
Communication is very important as is providing feedback (verbal and non-verbal) to each other on how you are responding to kisses and caresses and for what you may need now/next.
> last time i have a sex with a girl and i was unable to satisfy her and now i am going to marry so i am worrying.
Please read the articles and more than once. Whether you and your girlfriend read them together or separately is not important. What is important is that the two of you discuss what you have read and learn.[/QUOTE]
thanks for your kind information.
Let me know to delay ejaculation during sex?? What to do to increase stamina...
i've heard, probably from EEK and Brandye that exercising increases stamina...but im not sure how to help with the delay of ejaculation, my pleasure is speeding it up to please my man! :)
Sweet, I asked you to read the familiarize yourself with the articles listed in the Index. Your question about how to last longer is answered in one of the articles.
Please look around the site, do site searches using either of the two search engines, and read the articles that we've spent a lot of time and effort writing.
[QUOTE=shychick07;253753]i've heard, probably from EEK and Brandye that exercising increases stamina...but im not sure how to help with the delay of ejaculation, my pleasure is speeding it up to please my man! :)[/QUOTE]
will you want to suggest any special exercises to increase stamina..
SWEET - stop asking us to your work for you.
Read the articles.
Your questions have all been answered many times before.
check this article about sexual positions [url=http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/]Sex Positions - Best Kama Sutra Tips and Sexual Positions - Cosmopolitan.com, hope you will find some answers to your questions :)
[QUOTE=fat-sam;254017]check this article about sexual positions [url=http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/]Sex Positions - Best Kama Sutra Tips and Sexual Positions - Cosmopolitan.com, hope you will find some answers to your questions :)[/QUOTE]
hi i have read. really this one is so helpful. very informative link.
thanks
Far too many people think positions are the answer to keeping sex alive. It isn't. Making sex into something overwhelmingly good is more than just this toy, or that position. It is about communicating, revealing, playing, igniting and you can't do that if you remain bridled, cabined, cribbed, and confined by insecurities, doubts, and other handicaps.
Guys - give the lady room to express herself.
Ladies - cut loose and give the man what for.
I agree with you that sex is not just positions that we use, it's rather more... and intimacy, but still various sex poses can spicy up sexual life and give a new stimulus to a relationship :D
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;254029]Far too many people think positions are the answer to keeping sex alive. It isn't. Making sex into something overwhelmingly good is more than just this toy, or that position. It is about communicating, revealing, playing, igniting and you can't do that if you remain bridled, cabined, cribbed, and confined by insecurities, doubts, and other handicaps.
Guys - give the lady room to express herself.
Ladies - cut loose and give the man what for.[/QUOTE]
Amen to that. There's more to it than the physical aspect. So much more.