My boyfriend is leaving for college at the beginning of August, I'm still in high school. I want to have sex with him for the first time before he leaves; what are some things I can do to blow his mind before he leaves and make it unforgettable? :o :rolleyes:
After reading some things I've decided to change my opinion, I'm going to wait for however long it takes, now I believe it's better to wait a couple years or so after he's already there and go from there:-) thanks every1!
ask what he wants unless u want a surprise then just do w/e ur comfortable with
You want to have sex with him because you fear you are losing him and that is NOT a good reason. You are trying to manipulate him using sex. Stop it. Say goodbye and move on.
no,no no thats totally not what I meant.. we've been together for 2 years, its not like I'm manipulating him, I just thought it might be a good time, I'm going to wait a little longer, it doesn't really matter when we do it... but thanks:-)
Crazybrunette
I think you should save yourself a while longer. If he is going to college and I'm sure he will be meeting many other girls. If you are a person who treasure your virginity, then you should wait. By the end of his first year or maybe in the middle of his second year in college, he may not be your boyfriend any longer. Its a possibility this could happen "out of mind and out of sight"
What's the point of "offering your self up" at the sexual altar? Just because he gets laid doesn't mean it will mean anything to him! He'll appreciate it for a few days,but he'll get over it...question is ..........will you??
Thanks McKay... i think you're totally right , i've been thinking about doing that because I do treasure my virginity I will wait a while longer like you said i'm in no hurry of losing my special gift. Now that I've read some of your post McKay you have wise words thanks:-)
Are we still in the Medieval Period here?
Special gift? Maybe. For me the first time I got behind the wheel of a car was special also. It depends on who you are, whether it's special or not, and the degree of specialness.
My first time was with a female friend in junior high, and it ended up being a wild series of events while the parents were gone for a whole day. Yeah, that was special..... I still talk to her, too, but clearly the thing between us was over LONG ago.