The Boy happens to like coconut. The Boy is also a tense individual and very deserving of a massage. The problem is that while I'm fully capable of mixing up my own massage oils, they are not exactly condom compatible, and if this turns into an erotic massage, which it may well do, I don't want to have to worry about the condom for afters. Does anyone know of any coconut-scented lubricant aimed for erotic massage, or am I on a wild goose chase here?
Sun, 09/09/2007 - 20:38
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Coconut-scented sensual massage oil?
check out this link http://www.naturepacific.com/gallery5.htm
and google search ...boy butter com and ask them if it smells like coconuts..:)
Use polyurethan condoms. They are unaffected and are smoother.
Apply said oil to everything EXCEPT The Boy's genitals.
I have gotten some excellent results applying it right there, Evil! Depends upon what you are trying to accomplish and that is the option that is completely open to women!
What do I want? I want him to almost BEG for me to do something with it. Talk about getting a man hard and keeping him that way - a bit of frustration is good for a man. Wind him up and then let him loose!
Also this way no condom worries since his penis remains unanointed.
I was thinking about that, EEK, and that may very well be in the plan- but I don't want to have to worry about oil on my hands when putting it on, oil on his, drips, whatever. Yes, I am paranoid; yes, I am his sole partner and he is mine; yes, I'm on the pill, but I'm still paranoid and unashamed of that! So as much as I prefer real massage oils, for my own sanity...
Either that or I'll check out the poly condoms which would solve all problems rather neatly. Thank you to all three of you for your help!
Use a readily absorbed base for your oil, such as almond oil.
Oh my God! Are you so out of controll that you can't just get through the massage, get very turned on, want to go further, but don't know that there a thing called a wash cloth and soap and water! I mean come on here! Are you a child or an adult? Heres an idea, get some coconut scented soap and give him a body shampoo massage! You don't have to use oil :-)
Just use poly condoms. Just like Brandye said...trust me they work...and they feel so much better than latex...as far as Im concerned theyre definitely worth the extra money. :D
[quote]Oh my God! Are you so out of controll that you can't just get through the massage, get very turned on, want to go further, but don't know that there a thing called a wash cloth and soap and water! I mean come on here! Are you a child or an adult? [/quote]
Well, bless your heart.
[quote]Just use poly condoms. Just like Brandye said...trust me they work...and they feel so much better than latex...as far as Im concerned theyre definitely worth the extra money.[/quote]
Hmm. Well, I'll bow to the experience I gather you have, and pick some up! Thank you very much.
one question i've never used oils before with my massages, what should i get oil wise n how can i make this as sensual as one can get it w/o havin sex
CVA will have what you need in the way of oil - or just use J&J baby oil.
If you're going to be sensual there isn't any way to avoid sex - so just keep it all business-like and pound away at the muscles leaving the delight out of the picture.
[quote=EvilEvilKitten;193984]CVA will have what you need in the way of oil - or just use J&J baby oil.
If you're going to be sensual there isn't any way to avoid sex - so just keep it all business-like and pound away at the muscles leaving the delight out of the picture.[/quote]Evil: You lost me here. How do you have sensual massage w/o intercourse yet skip the delight and be "business-like"? This defies all of posts which are pleasure filled, perhaps I am missing your intent or the global picture! I tend to miss the sublime :)
Business-like would be ala a professional massage therapist focused upon the muscle groups and medical issues. There's no sex in that situation.
[quote=EvilEvilKitten;194066]Business-like would be ala a professional massage therapist focused upon the muscle groups and medical issues. There's no sex in that situation.[/quote]Gotcha!!!!!
thanks..... cant wait to work the magic, n another thing will warming oil be good or bad? i heard that it can be uncomfortable.
Personal preference here. I prefer to both give and receive massages in a warm environment (if I'm not comfortable in just my bra, The Boy definitely won't be comfortable in whatever state of nudity the situation requires) and with oils kept warm by keeping them in a bowl of hot water. Between that heat and my own body heat (which, for this type of massage, I make sure can be felt) I don't see the need for warming oils. You can certainly give them a try- get a small bottle and use it on yourself, just to rub your arm, and see what you think. Also see if it leaves you with any irritation.
Speaking of irritation- if you massage someone's back with IcyHot or any other muscle relief cream that involves menthol, be sure to ask them if they've used that product before. Some people are very sensitive to menthol and the sensation will be far more irritating and painful than relieving, especially when combined with the friction of your hands against their skin. I realize that this isn't what this thread is about, but figured I'd throw that in there anyway... I learnt this the hard way when using Thermaflex on some of my own sore muscles!
thanks for the response...hopefully this helps ill check out da stores for some oils