Well, I have been having sexual intercourse a few times now. It has always been in the missionary position. The thing is. I understand what the guy does when he is on top. But what about me?? what am I suppose to do?? I feel so clueless and the guy I am having sex with (not a bf) well I dont feel confortable asking him... dont want to feel like an idiot!!
So please give me tips or an understanding.. because people say that it comes naturally... well for me it doesnt, its like i have no instinc at all :S
Sun, 02/26/2006 - 00:41
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clueless even with missionary position
i'm probably not the best person to ask since i'm not as experienced as some of the people around here, but i figure a lame comment is better than no comment at all.
when your partner is on top, you could thrust against or with his thrusts with your pelvis. or you could just receive him. whatever you do with your pelvis, guys like it when you use your arms to caress, hug, scratch, squeeze. or kiss him, suck on his ear, (gently) bite his neck. coil your legs around his body. talk dirty. mess with his hair.
you could also ask him. it's scary, yes, but many guys love it when a girl wants to know how to make him happy.
anyone else have suggestions?