My girlfriend and I are very open about our sexual relationship, after having dated for 10 months.
I am able to bring her to climax through clitoral stimulation either by oral stimulation or vaginal intercourse coupled with fingering of her clitoris and or vaginal intercourse with a vibrator applied to her clitoris.
My issue is that she has said that never once has she achieved a vaginal orgasm. My understanding is that only 25% of women can achieve this, but I would like to know any tips or secrets as to whether I can help her with this.
She has had boyfriends in the past who also were unable to do this. Mind you, she admits that her past boyfriends didn't compare to my girth and length. Do I have an advantage with this and to provide a vaginal orgasm for her will I need to activate the G-spot?
Thanks. :)
Vaginal orgasms are discussed about half way down this article:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orgasm
> My issue is that she has said that never once has she achieved a vaginal orgasm. My understanding is that only 25% of women can achieve this, but I would like to know any tips or secrets as to whether I can help her with this.
Vaginal orgasms seem to be a learned response. Perhaps what is required to establish the pathways of the nerves is: "Practice...practice...practice...."
Unless the woman has a preference, I believe the better part of (male) valor is to help her achieve an orgasm by whatever means appeals to her. It is a gal thing, not so much a guy thing.
> will I need to activate the G-spot?
This is something that happens for her, not something you do to her.
The G-spot seems to also be a place that comes alive after a woman becomes very highly aroused, and then, only a certain few are able to include the benefits of the G-spot. I believe it is best to work on these other forms of orgasm, casually, and not to try and force them into happening. Less stress means having a greater chance for success.