Honestly? I dont know... I dont seem to have that problem ^^.
Does she mastrubate? Has she ever had an orgasm? Talk about it with her...
If she has other spots that make her come, it shouldnt be a problem?
I dont know... why doesnt she mastrubate?
Is it a religious question or something her parents told her its bad...? Talk about it with her. Tell her it would help when she would find out herself what pleases her.
And tell her that there is absolutely nothing wrong with mastrubating, that it is a great way to get to know your own body... I wouldnt know what to say else...
Any other ideas on this?
Your friend obviously has some misinformation or beliefs about masturbation and the art of making out in general. If she is at all interested in this aspect of her being and as it relates to how the two of you express the love you have for each other then she needs to do some research.
First of all she must understand that orgasms are not inherent and automatic. Also, that we do not give them away to our partner. Each of us is responsible for our own. All any of us can hope to accomplish is to help each other achieve his/her own.
That said, while every teenage girl and boy has the "equipment" and the "wiring" necessary to achieve and enjoy orgasms, each and every one of us must make the necessary electrical connections. This involves "connecting the dots" so to speak between the millions of nerve endings in the skin to the transmission lines in the autonomic nervous system, and then to the pleasure center in the brain. This requires training.
Boys pretty much establish these pathways as a matter of course when they learn to masturbate right out of puberty. Girls often do not learn as young, and some, not at all. If she is to make the transition from what is termed "preorgasmic" to an orgasmic person, she absolutely, positively, must learn to masturbate to orgasm and with consistency and regularity. For a man or woman to enjoy an orgasm regardless of how it is generated, for it to occur, we must already have the connections made and the circuits tried and tested.
If she refuses to masturbate yet expects her lover to give her an orgasm she is not only misinformed, but her own worst enemy. She needs information.
Honestly? I dont know... I dont seem to have that problem ^^.
Does she mastrubate? Has she ever had an orgasm? Talk about it with her...
If she has other spots that make her come, it shouldnt be a problem?
she doesnt mastrubate and no she hasnt had an orgasm but how can i get ehr to mastrubate cause she told me that she wont
I dont know... why doesnt she mastrubate?
Is it a religious question or something her parents told her its bad...? Talk about it with her. Tell her it would help when she would find out herself what pleases her.
And tell her that there is absolutely nothing wrong with mastrubating, that it is a great way to get to know your own body... I wouldnt know what to say else...
Any other ideas on this?
ill try and ill get back to u
i taled to her about it and she said that she would think about it. but i dont kno for sure if she is goin to.
Your friend obviously has some misinformation or beliefs about masturbation and the art of making out in general. If she is at all interested in this aspect of her being and as it relates to how the two of you express the love you have for each other then she needs to do some research.
First of all she must understand that orgasms are not inherent and automatic. Also, that we do not give them away to our partner. Each of us is responsible for our own. All any of us can hope to accomplish is to help each other achieve his/her own.
That said, while every teenage girl and boy has the "equipment" and the "wiring" necessary to achieve and enjoy orgasms, each and every one of us must make the necessary electrical connections. This involves "connecting the dots" so to speak between the millions of nerve endings in the skin to the transmission lines in the autonomic nervous system, and then to the pleasure center in the brain. This requires training.
Boys pretty much establish these pathways as a matter of course when they learn to masturbate right out of puberty. Girls often do not learn as young, and some, not at all. If she is to make the transition from what is termed "preorgasmic" to an orgasmic person, she absolutely, positively, must learn to masturbate to orgasm and with consistency and regularity. For a man or woman to enjoy an orgasm regardless of how it is generated, for it to occur, we must already have the connections made and the circuits tried and tested.
If she refuses to masturbate yet expects her lover to give her an orgasm she is not only misinformed, but her own worst enemy. She needs information.