I'm 26 & only just entering the world of masturbation -- & with every other partner I've disociated & not felt a thing during sex; it's different with my current partner....
I'm a survivor of childhood sexual abuse -- 1 in 4 women are.... I'm not saying your partner is or isn't & I am saying that you should not ask her if she is!
Just work on the other aspects of your relationship & let her relax -- when she feels comfortable & secure then she'll have the ability to make up her own mind as to what she wants physically....
Yes, you are doing something wrong: You are trying to solve her problem. More information is necessary to help at all. Starting with whether she cares and going to are you actually stimulating the proper spot.
I'm 26 & only just entering the world of masturbation -- & with every other partner I've disociated & not felt a thing during sex; it's different with my current partner....
I'm a survivor of childhood sexual abuse -- 1 in 4 women are.... I'm not saying your partner is or isn't & I am saying that you should not ask her if she is!
Just work on the other aspects of your relationship & let her relax -- when she feels comfortable & secure then she'll have the ability to make up her own mind as to what she wants physically....
Yes, you are doing something wrong: You are trying to solve her problem. More information is necessary to help at all. Starting with whether she cares and going to are you actually stimulating the proper spot.