For some reason, my girlfriend doesn't like it when i rub her clit, she says it isn't painful yet it doesn't feel good either. I asked her why and she said i don't know. Can someone explain this to me, preferably dancingdoc.
Fri, 08/22/2008 - 02:16
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Clit Problem.
Have you looked through threads on the subject? There are many, some explained by Doc & EEK. What happens if she mamasturbates same discomfort?
This is a place to start until he sees your thread.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing-her/11345-fingering-101-a.html
Read the various posters especially Docs & Atomics where there is info quoted.
In addition to the link Sera provided, please look at the Index. There is more than one article that deals with this.
Many girls and women who have not masturbated or explored their genitals find touching their clitoris to be quite uncomfortable. I have two suggestions:
1. Use a lubricant on your fingers
2. Stimulate the clitoris indirectly by folding the labia over it and massaging it through them
I hope this is of help.
I used to be like that, still like that unless I am really in the mood and he's gentle. Some women just don't like it as much as others. Try fingering her, I much prefer that than my clit being touched :).
Men tend to think of the clitoris as a small penis and treat it the same way they want their penis' treated. You will find a sticky on sexual response that talks about the differences.
talk to your girl on whats right, i was actualy going softer than i needed to on her clit until recently so talk to her about what she wants and if one thing doesn't work try something else