hey, i am new in here, when i am trying to eat my g/f out she dosent seem to respond to what i am doing, we are new at this, and i think it might be my unexpierence at it, but how long does it noermally take to get her screaming, and is it possible forsome women to not be clitorally arroused?
Wed, 08/11/2004 - 05:33
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clit dosent work lol ?
Well my I can get my girlfreind off relativly quickly 10-15min just by sucking, and flicking my toung over her clit in different directions quickly, also she likes it gental almost as tickling her with your toung, try different things...
Ohh and not all girls have screaming wake the neighbors orgasms, my gf just breaths really hard, grasps things, and has muscle spasms, the only thing I ever hear he say is, "im gona cum"...So dont expect too much...
gl!
I would say anything is possible. Most women love clitoral stiumlation of any type, but some don't like certain things. For instance, If you watch alot of the adult movies out there, alot of guys sit there and flick their tongues rapidly on a woman's clit. Well for my girlfriend, she likes it to actually be sucked. Taking the lips and clit and just sucking on it almost as if it was a penis. This is just an exampled of differences. Some women like more indirect stimulation. Some like more direct, and some just like a ton of foreplay beforehand. Ask what she likes. I am serious. Simply ask what she likes. If she is used to fingering herself, then start with fingering her and as she gets more and more horny then try oral. Let her have the control with what you are doing and see how that goes. She may also have a mental block about maybe feeling dirty or smelly down there. And if that is the case, all I can suggest is constant reassurance. She may never enjoy oral sex, but if she wants it, then keep trying. Just try and talk with her to see if she likes a certain style.
well the problem is we are our first partners, and unfortunatly she was raised not to touch her-self, and thats somthing else i am working on.... but anyways, i think she really dosent know what clitoral stimulation feels like ?? and i am not really experienced at oral yet, but she does have g spot orgasms
[QUOTE=Quote (wannaplease @ Aug. 11 2004,12:33)]but she does have g spot orgasms
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well then what are you worried about?
be glad she can have orgasms at all...some women can't or have them rarely.
some women can only get off on clitoral stimulation...others its no big thing.
take Brauul's advice. just try different techniques and pressures. some women like a lot of direct pressure...for others thats too intense and they just kind of like light pressure around the clit instead of right on it.
I feel your girl friend must learn to masturbate before she can tell you what she likes and doesn't like. I understand not knowing how to do it but none of us did until we started doing it, right?
You need to tell her that it is perfectly normal to do and that the best way to enjoy sex is to know her own body first. Do some research on female masturbation. There is tons of stuff on it on the net.
Also you have to learn to ask questions and read body language. Read the stuff on this forum about female orgasms and oral sex to see what you can learn from the women and men that know how to do it well.
Don't stress to much about it. Practice and a willingness to learn you will both be enjoying it more in no time.