circumcised or not

well im not circumcised

Why be nervous?

Once the foreskin has been retracted and the glans exposed, all is the same, save for one thing--sensitivity!

The nerves in the glans of a penis with foreskin is dramatically more sensitive. This can be a good thing or not depending upon how you work with him and not overdo it.

A penis with a foreskin gives you two ways to please him. First, thru the foreskin because it has sensitive nerve endings; second, working on the glans directly. Think of this as double my pleasure; double his pleasure.

Ask him to give you feedback {verbal or non-) on how he is responding to your hand job and/or oral stimulation and for what he needs now/next.

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Im not and once the penis is fully erected you will not see a difference.

Break him? As in ruin him for all other women? Their poor vaginas not able to meet the high watermark he'll be conditioned to? This sounds like a teen angst movie. Are you a sparkly vampire perchance?

Each person is unique, and has their own abilities and drives. If he's spending his future without you pining away for you instead of looking for new excitements that's his problem. Don't hold yourself back for a "what if" for his future.

Sorry I'm pissy. I hurt my leg running this morning and had to hobble home in the cold. :(

Well, I say use all the knowledge and experience and teach him how to be the best he can be. No sense in worrying about him being scared, rather use those tools you have for your own benefit. If anything, he may even feel "cheated" if you DON'T teach him what you know, since surely he knows you're more experienced. Like he wasn't worthy or whatnot to get the real you, and had to settle with Skygoddess Lite.

It's kind of like camping, you leave the campsite in better condition than when you got there. The next campers will be very happy by that. :)

I feel compelled to take a side trip and address the "break" issue mentioned in earlier posts. This is a term used when the penis is bent into an unusual position during thrusting. More likely with the woman on top, it can happen in any position when the pressure of thrusting is in excess of the lubricant's ability to allow the penis to slide into the vagina. This can result in a bending of the penis that may or may not be quite painful. Usually, this is quite a minor problem. However, some explain the development of Peyronie's disease as a result of this having happened causing damage to the struture that allows erection for the penis. Peyronie's usually appears while a man is in his forties and results in the erect penis developing a different curvature. Usually, it still functions but bends, when erect, in the direction of the side of the penis that was damaged several years earlier.

Peyronie's runs a cycle of about four years after which, what you have is what you will have the rest of your life. In extreme situations, vaginal insertion is painful or impossible because of pain in the man. Generally, it is an inconvenience and may require some explanation to a new partner.

So, yes, you can break it. Usually not a problem.

Show of hands, how many guys reading this thread have a disconcerted look on their face, thinking about penises kinked over like a garden hose?

I wouldn't think it wouldn't matter how experienced he or you are. If you're going so rough that snapping it in half is inevitable, then that seems extreme. I would think experience grants knowledge of how to make this NOT happen.

Crap, double post.

When soft-n-when it's hard it is it looks great....:)

I have been with guys who have both been cirumcised and uncircumcised.My current boyfriend still has his foreskin and our sex life is wonderful in comparison to my ex who is circumcumcised.I enjoy giving my boyfriend blowjobs and handjobs.It is so much better than I experienced with my ex.I also come during penetrative sex which also never happened with my ex.I understand the bendy thing as it has happened a few times when I have been on top,and I have been scared that I would snap the penis in half like a twig.My bf is in his mid 40's and I think his penis does curve a little anyway.

Yes my boyfriend said that I am better than any of his exes at giving him bj's and that makes me so happy and want to please him even more.

i believe another term for breaking it is called a "broken boner" where basically the blood vessels on one sight crack, icing and elevation are reccomended (not a doctor, look it up to be sure) but ive heard quite a bit about it.

Cal,

Please read my post earlier in this thread. No, the blood vessels do not crack. There are two pouches, and one minor one, one on each side of the penis. When sexually aroused, a tiny valve closes holding blood in the sac and yielding an erection. If one of these sacs has been damaged, there could later be onset of Peyronie's disease. There have been a variety of treatments over the years including radiation and surgery. A few drugs have been found to be useless. I have never heard of packing it in ice.

There is a scientific American article (look it up). Many men have experienced this. In most cases it is not big deal but taken to extremes, a tear can be made in the sac and needs surgical repair.

Elevation? Interesting at your desk next morning!

i love it when a girl plays with my foreskin with her fingers or mouth.
pulling, licking, sucking, or nibbling
i love when getting a hand job to have my precum spread around the head then wrap my foreskin around her finger as she moves it around and around the head of my penis

I have only been with guys who were circumsized.