Me and my former partner lost our virginity to each other. We had sex 3 times. I wasn't paying attention that her Cherry Didn't Pop. I'm 6 inches. We're broken up now, and now the guy she just had sex with doesn't believe that I had sex with her cause he popped her cherry, and blood was everywhere. He's 8 inches. What was the matter. Was my penis too small? Why didn't it pop the first three times. Its not that bad, its just making me feel unconfident and making me seem like I'm small.
Mon, 01/05/2004 - 01:10
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Cherry didn't pop
heres a link to a page Rawbob posted in another thread.
it has pics and lots of info on the hymen. which is located right at the opening of the vagina not inside.
there's pics tho so you are forewarned lol.
6 inches is average..Also I wouldn't be too thrilled if I popped my girls cherry...What's to be excited about? Blood everywhere
[QUOTE=Quote (mike @ Jan. 05 2004,13:52)]Blood does not equal "cherry." It is physically impossible to fit 6 inches of penis into a normal vagina without breaking the hymen. They don't know what they're talking about.[/QUOTE]
I dont know if thats true, I know my current girl friend Im with had a few guys before me but they were all there for sex (her previous boy friends) and she didnt like them at all, but she was just horny I guess.
Anyways, I popped my girlfriends cherry the first time and blood went everywhere, the way I found out is if i put two fingers (if you can fit em) and feel around usually you can find a long stringy type peice of skin, if not, its popped, me, last time she measured I was 9 inches, I still think im small in my opinion.
It doesnt matter if you pop it or not, as long as you both have fun
She did, she told me
so did she say whether or not she bleed or if he was just making it all up
Yea, thanks for all the help, we assumed that all of what you said was what happened, but I just wanted to be completely positive, and yes, I'm still friends with the girl, and we're already plotting our revenge on the guy
O.k., so they had sex in kind of a public place. It still sounds like the guy is looking for "bragging rights" for having gotten a virgin. He sounds like a jerk.
And, since he is acting like a jerk, I wouldn't worry about whether he believes you had sex or not. You know what really happened and that's all that is important. If this girl is still a friend of yours, hopefully, she will realize what a creep he is for spreading rumors about the both of you.
i agree
you are just hearing this story from him?
maybe he's just wanting to brag or whatever.
you should ask her what really happened
First off, you are not small, the average is about 5 or 6.
Also, at present times it can happen that a girl can tear her hymen without having sex. And it doesn't neseserally mean that because the girl bleed, that it's her first time. I lost my virginity to my ex-fiance who was the time of guy to who you want to say "ahmmm...I need a microscope" I didn't bleed at all, and we've done it a few times. THen I was with my now-bf, who is a magnum man, a first few times it hurt like hel and I bleed just a bit. In that case size could have been the problem. In your case could be that the guy is not taking a bit mroe care not to hurt her. Plus how can you be sure that he's not fooling himself into thinking that he "popped" it?
Blood does not equal "cherry." It is physically impossible to fit 6 inches of penis into a normal vagina without breaking the hymen. They don't know what they're talking about.
They didn't do it in such a private place, so everybody new it about 3 seconds after they did it
Since alot of young women now days "pop" their own "cherry" with tampons, I really don't see the significance of this as an accomplishment. I hope the young lady in question is o.k.
Second, the size of your penis falls amazingly in the "average" catagory. In fact, it's on the high side.
Lastly, why is this guy(the new guy) going around making so much out of what should be a private affair?
six inches isnt small! he probably just hit her hymen the right way and that's y he popped it and not u. ur not small at all!!!
first off. you're not small. your size is perfectly fine and average.
second off, some female's hymens are tougher than others. some women have to have theirs surgically cut because they are so tough.
she may have a tough hymen herself and you may have weakened it some which could have allowed him to break it.
but also take in mind that just cause you bleed down there, doesn't mean the hymen was broken.
one of my friends is far from being a virgin, especially since she has a kid. but she will bleed down there if her husband hits her cervix too hard. cervix bleeding is uncommon but not unheard of.