I wouldn't have a problem with it. I'd like it because...well, I don't believe that anyone has ever caressed my cheek while I've gone down on them. I'd take it as a sweet gesture.
[QUOTE=Godiva;182702]I wouldn't have a problem with it. I'd like it because...well, I don't believe that anyone has ever caressed my cheek while I've gone down on them. I'd take it as a sweet gesture.[/QUOTE]
That's how it was intended, I'm just concerned that It may not be interpreted that way
My bf sometimes does it. I actually like it, it gives the sense of gentle and sweet love making, as opposed to wild. Not that I don't like wild and quite animal-like sex sometimes, but gentle and soft still wins.
So I'd say, go for it. If she interpetes it differently, talk about it afterwards.
I don't usually have my wife do oral on me, but I do sometimes caress her cheek during sex. It lets her know I love her and that her pleasure matters to me.
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[QUOTE=Godiva;182702]I wouldn't have a problem with it. I'd like it because...well, I don't believe that anyone has ever caressed my cheek while I've gone down on them. I'd take it as a sweet gesture.[/QUOTE]
I like it. It makes me feel that they are enjoying it. But if their hand moves to the back of my head and starts pressing my head down... I stop. And tell them never to do that again. And If they do it again, they are done for good. I think it is completely rude.
my guy does that to me....i find it wierd...i dont like it that much but i guess im in the minority since it seems that everyone else really likes it.
it just goes to show that not everyone loves it though
[QUOTE=bailey0258;183186]I like it. It makes me feel that they are enjoying it. But if their hand moves to the back of my head and starts pressing my head down... I stop. And tell them never to do that again. And If they do it again, they are done for good. I think it is completely rude.[/QUOTE]
Haha, my boyfriend sometimes can't help himself and ends up doing this. I know it's not like he's meaning it to be rude or anything, he just gets really into it and moves on reflex...
I usually do stop too though, if he actually starts pressing me down. I will take it all in when and how I please, thank you very much! :p
[QUOTE=~*GenericUserName*~;183217]Haha, my boyfriend sometimes can't help himself and ends up doing this. I know it's not like he's meaning it to be rude or anything, he just gets really into it and moves on reflex...
I usually do stop too though, if he actually starts pressing me down. I will take it all in when and how I please, thank you very much! :p[/QUOTE]
My ex once tried to press down my head. I removed his hand and he said "Aw, don't be a bore! Let's do it like in the movies!". I still said no, and he was mad about it. Then later, when we were doing the 69, I pressed my vagina onto his face. He got really mad, but I just put on my innocent face and said "But I thought you wanted it like in the movies?"
I've never pushed my girlfriend's head down-it would feel to me like i was forcing her, and i don't want to do that.
as for brushing her cheek, we're very physical during sex (that sounds stupid :rolleyes: ); our hands always go all over each other. so i do this frequently with her and she seems to like it. it adds a little sensuality to the blowjob
[QUOTE=Orow;183230]My ex once tried to press down my head. I removed his hand and he said "Aw, don't be a bore! Let's do it like in the movies!". I still said no, and he was mad about it. Then later, when we were doing the 69, I pressed my vagina onto his face. He got really mad, but I just put on my innocent face and said "But I thought you wanted it like in the movies?"
He never tried something like that again. :cool:[/QUOTE]
Holding her down is the exact opposite of what I had in mind.. Making her feel special is what I had in mind.
That and trying to keep my hands steady later on...
well, i think it would be nice, i mean, i can see where your coming from with it, but unlike most people here i actually LIKE it when they push my head down, i guess i'm kinda kinky too but still, it makes me feel like they are getting into it and i haven't taken a very long penis before so it helps to get me started, besides that i like it when he's forceful :p . hehe. so i guess i don't get into it as much as the other ladies on here
[QUOTE=JOshua;182658]Ladies,
If you're going down on a man and he caresses your cheek.
How would that make feel?
if it's just a case of softly touching then it's ok i surpose, i must admit i did look at this question very strangly....
sorry,
as gentle as I can.
I wouldn't have a problem with it. I'd like it because...well, I don't believe that anyone has ever caressed my cheek while I've gone down on them. I'd take it as a sweet gesture.
[QUOTE=Godiva;182702]I wouldn't have a problem with it. I'd like it because...well, I don't believe that anyone has ever caressed my cheek while I've gone down on them. I'd take it as a sweet gesture.[/QUOTE]
That's how it was intended, I'm just concerned that It may not be interpreted that way
My bf sometimes does it. I actually like it, it gives the sense of gentle and sweet love making, as opposed to wild. Not that I don't like wild and quite animal-like sex sometimes, but gentle and soft still wins.
So I'd say, go for it. If she interpetes it differently, talk about it afterwards.
I don't usually have my wife do oral on me, but I do sometimes caress her cheek during sex. It lets her know I love her and that her pleasure matters to me.
.....
[QUOTE=Godiva;182702]I wouldn't have a problem with it. I'd like it because...well, I don't believe that anyone has ever caressed my cheek while I've gone down on them. I'd take it as a sweet gesture.[/QUOTE]
Ditto.
I like it. It makes me feel that they are enjoying it. But if their hand moves to the back of my head and starts pressing my head down... I stop. And tell them never to do that again. And If they do it again, they are done for good. I think it is completely rude.
It Would Feel Wonderfull!!!!! It Means That You Care About Your Partner Not Only For The Sex
my guy does that to me....i find it wierd...i dont like it that much but i guess im in the minority since it seems that everyone else really likes it.
it just goes to show that not everyone loves it though
[QUOTE=bailey0258;183186]I like it. It makes me feel that they are enjoying it. But if their hand moves to the back of my head and starts pressing my head down... I stop. And tell them never to do that again. And If they do it again, they are done for good. I think it is completely rude.[/QUOTE]
Haha, my boyfriend sometimes can't help himself and ends up doing this. I know it's not like he's meaning it to be rude or anything, he just gets really into it and moves on reflex...
I usually do stop too though, if he actually starts pressing me down. I will take it all in when and how I please, thank you very much! :p
[QUOTE=~*GenericUserName*~;183217]Haha, my boyfriend sometimes can't help himself and ends up doing this. I know it's not like he's meaning it to be rude or anything, he just gets really into it and moves on reflex...
I usually do stop too though, if he actually starts pressing me down. I will take it all in when and how I please, thank you very much! :p[/QUOTE]
My ex once tried to press down my head. I removed his hand and he said "Aw, don't be a bore! Let's do it like in the movies!". I still said no, and he was mad about it. Then later, when we were doing the 69, I pressed my vagina onto his face. He got really mad, but I just put on my innocent face and said "But I thought you wanted it like in the movies?"
He never tried something like that again. :cool:
I've never pushed my girlfriend's head down-it would feel to me like i was forcing her, and i don't want to do that.
as for brushing her cheek, we're very physical during sex (that sounds stupid :rolleyes: ); our hands always go all over each other. so i do this frequently with her and she seems to like it. it adds a little sensuality to the blowjob
I Think Thats An Extremely Sweet Gesture.
[QUOTE=Orow;183230]My ex once tried to press down my head. I removed his hand and he said "Aw, don't be a bore! Let's do it like in the movies!". I still said no, and he was mad about it. Then later, when we were doing the 69, I pressed my vagina onto his face. He got really mad, but I just put on my innocent face and said "But I thought you wanted it like in the movies?"
He never tried something like that again. :cool:[/QUOTE]
LMAO Nice move!
I would like that...any kind of touching is nice. BUT DO NOT bob my head up and down--I know what I'm doing, it's a turn off.
Caressing the jaw or cheek is good. Holding onto the head is not. And do not move excessively either.
Holding her down is the exact opposite of what I had in mind.. Making her feel special is what I had in mind.
That and trying to keep my hands steady later on...
well, i think it would be nice, i mean, i can see where your coming from with it, but unlike most people here i actually LIKE it when they push my head down, i guess i'm kinda kinky too but still, it makes me feel like they are getting into it and i haven't taken a very long penis before so it helps to get me started, besides that i like it when he's forceful :p . hehe. so i guess i don't get into it as much as the other ladies on here
[QUOTE=JOshua;182658]Ladies,
If you're going down on a man and he caresses your cheek.
How would that make feel?
Thank you
--JOshua[/QUOTE]
I love the feeling of touch. So I would have no problem with it. It's a simple sweet gesture.
i would love it! him looking in my eyes and caressing my cheek...aww, it is a sweet gesture like everyone said. ;)
hm yes i would do that as a gesture of love and affection