My girlfriend and I have recently started have sex, and up until now we've done it three times. All three times I used a condom and never actually ejaculated from the sex. I pulled out all three times when I felt I was getting close, and removed the condom so my girlfriend could finish me off through oral. Before removing the condom however, I carefully checked to make sure there weren't any rips or tears, and so far I didn't find any all three times, but what had me worried was the base of my penis where the condom extended all the way down to was somewhat wet all three of those times. So I was wondering if the wetness could be my precum leaking out from the tip, or could the wetness most likely be the lubricant from the condom? What would be the chance of pregnancy if it was precum that leaked out at the base?
I know the chances of her getting pregnant are pretty low, seeing as how condoms have a 10% failure rate according to the stickied thread, and I never actually ejaculated while still inside her, but I'm still really paranoid because I'm still young and all, and her period isn't scheduled to start for another week. I guess I'm just looking for some reassurance. Thanks in advanced!
[quote=Flex86;187993]The wetness was probably her pal...[/quote]
Ditto..........
The wetness was probably her pal...
Yeah that was my thought too :)
I realized that as one of the possibilities for the wetness, but I wasn't sure since it looked liked liquids could have leaked out from the base of the condom. On that note, is it possible for precum to travel from the tip of the condom to the base and leak out? (yes, very paranoid :P)
What you describe is one of the reasons why it's important to pull out soon after you ejaculate in the condom...b/c yes.. it can leak out.
That said, I don't think there is enough volume of pre-cum to totally fill the tip reservoire of the condom and then start to leak out the bottom.
Also, when using condoms as your form of birth control.. it is suggested for the girl to use another form such as a spermicidal foam/jelly/insert..etc.
In such cases that the condom breaks or you think that fluid has leaked out.
I would suggest this or her being on the pill or something since you state that you are very paranoid about the situation.
That is just one of the things that come along w/ having sex.. that you sweat out each month hoping that she has her period... so in the end you have to decide if it's worth the hassle.. you know???
I would say that your chances are pretty slim that she's prego...
Thanks for all the input so far guys, its put my mind somewhat at ease. :)
Her period is scheduled to start anytime now, so I'm still a tiny bit worried. Any further opinions would be welcomed!
[quote=DC4;189061]Thanks for all the input so far guys, its put my mind somewhat at ease. :)
Her period is scheduled to start anytime now, so I'm still a tiny bit worried. Any further opinions would be welcomed![/quote]
If you are this concerned get a home preg test & ask her to do it...end of concern.
Okay, the test came back negative, so I'm somewhat relieved. :) Won't be fully relieved until she starts her period for sure though.