Not really... In my opinion, the best sex is where you learn together. Nothing is better than learning from, and about the person you are sleeping with.
And no lover is better than the one who learns what you like!
[QUOTE=ChiliPepper;168393]Not really... In my opinion, the best sex is where you learn together. Nothing is better than learning from, and about the person you are sleeping with.
And no lover is better than the one who learns what you like![/QUOTE]
I'm in the "learning stage" right now. I'm 20 and just had sex on monday for the second time and the person that I'm with right now is perfect. She's 5 years older then me and is helping me. We decided to be "uck buddies and its awesome. Have sex once a month even though I wouldn't mind more.
The "challenge" they are talking about is usually "a guy who won't roll over and play dead" whenever she says to. Which is true but only up to a point. Where that point is depends upon the personalities involved.
This is based on the very old stereo type that women are more emotional and men are more physical.
Not to imply that we dont care about both.... cause we all do. But in a very blunt simplistic way this is the way we naturally prioritize the beginning of attraction.
In what sense?
Emotionally?
Relationship wise?
This isnt something Ive heard alot of. And I guess the answer depends on how you mean it.
like a guy who knows what hes doing and who knows more than they do..
Not really... In my opinion, the best sex is where you learn together. Nothing is better than learning from, and about the person you are sleeping with.
And no lover is better than the one who learns what you like!
[QUOTE=ChiliPepper;168393]Not really... In my opinion, the best sex is where you learn together. Nothing is better than learning from, and about the person you are sleeping with.
And no lover is better than the one who learns what you like![/QUOTE]
I'm in the "learning stage" right now. I'm 20 and just had sex on monday for the second time and the person that I'm with right now is perfect. She's 5 years older then me and is helping me. We decided to be "uck buddies and its awesome. Have sex once a month even though I wouldn't mind more.
"Challenge" like a man they want to change? (bad idea, BTW)
Challenge as in the size of what they allow inside themselves?
The "challenge" they are talking about is usually "a guy who won't roll over and play dead" whenever she says to. Which is true but only up to a point. Where that point is depends upon the personalities involved.
I'm not sure but I think it means a really big dildo... :confused:
the bare bones psychology of attraction.
A women has to challenge a man physically
A man has to challenge a women emotionally.
This is based on the very old stereo type that women are more emotional and men are more physical.
Not to imply that we dont care about both.... cause we all do. But in a very blunt simplistic way this is the way we naturally prioritize the beginning of attraction.