Often when my gf and I are having sex we have a reoccurring problem...when I thrust deep from any position accidentally or on purpose..we can feel my penis "knock" into something and it's painful for her.....however other times it doesnt hit a thing no matter how hard or deep I go...we can't figure it out...I looked on the internet and read that my penis is probably hitting her cervix....does foreplay or anything help reduce the chances of this cause its sure a pain in the vag!?
Tue, 12/11/2007 - 00:38
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cervix?
Yes its the cervix....but what you need to do is when you go in, make sure you slide down under it.
does it matter what shape penis you have? it seems like I could go under it easier if I had one that curved up towards my stomach but mine points out directly horizontal...that also could be totally wrong I have no clue
I hate that thing...
The shape of your penis shouldn't matter - you just have to learn how to find your way around. You can try looking at some diagrams, but honestly they never really helped me at all. I'm still not entirely sure I even know where it is most of the time...
lol yeah I have looked at the diagrams a million times, that does do squat when I'm twisted and humping 8 ways from Tuesday...its just a pain
Knowing where you are when inside of her is a skill EVERY man should take the time to learn. Here is some guidance - just make sure you PRACTICE!
1. Using your hand find and caress the G-Spot. Feel it so you know what it is when you find it later on with the head of your penis.
2. Make sure you are kneeling between her legs so you can see what you're doing and slowly enter her, feeling for her G-Spot with the head of your penis. Remember to think "up" and that it isn't all that far into her vagina. Remember how far to go in. Watch her reaction - it feels VERY GOOD so you should be able to see it when you get there.
3. Now lean forward over her more, find her cervix, gently now!, and then move beneath it, think "down" and press downward as you enter in, most likely your full length if she's aroused. You are looking for her posterior fornix. Once again watch for her reaction because it feels VERY GOOD too! Remember how it feels to you and how far you go in.
then....PRACTICE FREQUENTLY
thanks a lot! By the way EEK does the shape of the penis have any effect on this? I'm guessing no since you didnt say anything about it but I figured I'd ask.
The ONLY that matters about the penis is how well you control/use it.
lol yeah i got ya...now if only you had a nickel for every time you have had to write that on here
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;202143]The ONLY that matters about the penis is how well you control/use it.[/QUOTE]
so most penises should be able to reach the posterior fornix?
Cerainly, just use a position that works for you both.