I am trying to find a legitimate certified massage therapist for my wife (male therapist preferred), that would provide her a sensual, yet "legal" massage. The tough thing I am finding out, is trying to find a balance between the sterile, clinical environment of the high end spa's vs the noise/slime you may encounter on let's say "craigslist".

Does anyone have any recommendations? In other words, one step more sensual than what can be found at a high end spa. Don't really know how to start searching for this.

Thanks!

I live in Northern CA if that helps..