Hi all,
Recently me and my girlfriend tried stimulating the g spot for the first time (her previous boyfriend tried and failed horribly, it took him over an hour, poor bloke must have been useless :D ). I used my hands having one on her G spot (which luckily I found with no bother) and one on her clit. This is where the problem started. After 5 mins she began to orgasm, she later told me that this was the most intense orgasm she has ever had and despite the fact that she loved it she couldnt continue and asked me to stop.
SO basically the problem is that she can't take the strength of the orgasm generated by this means (I've been told it was only one orgasm before she made me stop, hadnt even reached the second yet).
Is this a common problem with ladies? and if not how can I help her get through this problem as I really want her to have the best time she can possibly have.
Thanking you ever so greatly
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Really? How'd you find it?
And yes, I'm pretty sure it's common. Hopefully the doc or Brandeye will come through, though.
If a woman can orgasm from g-spot stimulation, they are the most intense and generally leave you rendered useless afterwards!
I find orgasms through clitoral stimulation are the weakest and usually one will occur, and any additional have to be through/during penetration. I can have multiple strictly through intercourse and can still keep going. But the old g-spot is a done deal.
Try one of the other methods first, let her re-coop. And then go for the g-spot!
Empemera: Read Brandye's sticky on G-spot stimulation, it's pretty easy to find just make sure she is aroused first. It's between 11' O'clock and 1 O'clock on the top of her vaginal wall, about as far in as your second knuckle. It feels like a rough patch or a spongy area.
Nice idea Sera300, it might work but she gets a bit tender down there after an orgasm by the clit or through oral, I'll ask her if she's up for it though. Does anybody else have any ideas?
And Ephemera, I can understand some of the online advise being confusing (Oh I do know, I searched ages for tips before trying it) but there really is a very simple way to do it. Once she is wet through foreplay or clit stimulation place the finger nearest to the thumb in until the second joint (before the knuckle). Now feel around and ask where it feels good. Once you have the place focus on it, rub gently at first but as it begins to increase in size (which I'm dam sure it did) become a little more vigorous and you should have her orgasming in no time :D , hope this helps.
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Please read my sticky on What we know on this forum. And do not put down the previous boyfriend. My g/f and I, both medical professionals who know our way around females genitals, spent hours in different sessions finding one another's. As sera points out, it was worthwhile but no one, man or woman, can be expected to read a bunch of stuff and get right to it.
There is still no medical or physical evidence that the G-Spot really exists. I am very happy have found mine.
[QUOTE=Brandye;176230]Please read my sticky on What we know on this forum. And do not put down the previous boyfriend. My g/f and I, both medical professionals who know our way around females genitals, spent hours in different sessions finding one another's. As sera points out, it was worthwhile but no one, man or woman, can be expected to read a bunch of stuff and get right to it.
There is still no medical or physical evidence that the G-Spot really exists. I am very happy have found mine.[/QUOTE]
Sorry, I suppose I should be more respectful towards him... its just that I hate the guy for personal reasons.
I'll go read that thread.
All I can find off relevance is that every girl is different? Is this what you wanted me to look at or were you reffering to a different sticky thread?
Cheers
[quote=link;176245]All I can find off relevance is that every girl is different? Is this what you wanted me to look at or were you reffering to a different sticky thread?
Cheers[/quote]
Try this:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_her/19807-what_we_know_g-spot_e...
and
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/pleasing_her/11335-g-spot_101.html
What we know about the Gspot and Ejaculation
Ahhh Sera.. you are a sneaky one! lol Beat me to it :)
You have taught me well Demon! LOL!