I have a problem staying up, and can never get my penis fully hard. When i have sex with my girlfriend i CAN'T FEEL A THING with a condom on so i end up losing my erection. This has happened seariously 6 times in a row. I tried ribbed condoms on my 6th try but it didn't work that well. If she gives me a blowjob it goes down aswell. It feels good but i still lose my erection. If we stop for like a second it will go down. If we go to change positions in sex it will go down.
I put it in her for a min before without a condom and it felt really good, and i think i could have stayed up. It makes me not want to use a condom but i have to. I can't remember that much about it because i was drunk. Do you think being drunk made my blood pressure higher so my penis could stay up?
I haven't had a check up from the doctor in 3-4 years. Yea i know its a long time. Could there be any health issues that could cause me penis to not be able to get as big or stay hard?
Thanks
First the issue can be caused by alcohol. Don't drink.
Second, see a doctor you need to find out why this is happening-- if it's psychological or physical.
this problem has been happening before i started drinking. This isnt the only girl it has happend with.
See a doctor then. It's important.
Drinking alcohol is a factor as well as stress, medication and the anxiety to perform also has a influence, you don’t mention if you go hard in the mornings (morning glory) or when you masturbate and stay hard for a while if not then I think something is not working too well and then See a doctor or urologist., if you stay hard when masturbating then I believe it is all sociological
It could be many issues and alcohol, smoking and other substances are leaders among them. Diet is more important than people think along with general physical conditioning. See a doctor.
today we were messing around and i got up. I can't get as hard as i used to be able to. Not even if i masturbate. Were going to try taking a break for 5 days since she just got her period and see how everything goes. I'm going try to go get a check up this week and then ill ask my doctor about it.
i have the same problem, ive tried without a condom aswell *caught up in lust* and it was amazing but i won't be trying that again, just last saturday i managed to get hard then i went soft which really doesn't make sense , don't smoke , drink whatever, im a little overweight which i doubt would affect it much.
make sure to have a hell of alot of foreplay , only way i can get properaly hard , otherwise it gives up :(
One of the biggest issues is stressing that he will not perform it is easier said than done but if you don’t worry that you will not get hard it will get hard herbal pills sold to people to help get you hard 99% of the time are not related but sociologically they do
Much the same if a child comes to you with a pain ( you know it is not sereous)and you give her / him a sugar pill psychologically they think the pain is gone
Try not to worry and just have fun making love
Are you able to get your penis hard as a rock while you masterbate? Try to get your girl to rub your penis in small circular motions on the ''V'' of your penis (Where your shaft meets your gland when your penis is looking at you). Her finger should not be rubbing your skin, it should be moving your skin in circular motions so that your skin is actually rubbing your penis. (I dunno if you get what I mean, maybe someone could explain it better)
My bf/ ex hubby has a problem to he cant seem to stay hard while we r going at it it dont matter if we go slow or fast or mild he cant stay hard or he says that he can feel him self cummin but it just backs off and then he trys and it just stops everything why is this
Definitely see a doctor. A friend of mine had this problem in his late thirties. Since he is not much of a drinker, I told him it probably was stress, but he should go see a doc. He didn't go for a couple of months, but he went. Turns out he has heart disease and his arteries were beginning to clog. He's on medication and now is able to have erections. Going to the doctor may have saved his life. It certainly made his sex life better.
Hi .. It could be a low hormone problem ..How is your sex drive ?
Problems like this in a man can have many (or multiple) sources, both medical and psychological. The only reasonable approach is for him to see a urologist. Even that is not certain given how complicated sexual arousal is.