i've been going out wit my bf for about 7 an a half months n we r still young. (16) obviously we r still learning about evrything, but yday i mastered giving my bf an orgasm through oral and hj, but i cnt seem to give him tips about how to help me. we started "teacher/pupil" lessons one day n he gave me one about giving him a hj, and i've improved so so much...but i've given him one about how to masturbate me, but although it gets me very wet, i just can't work out how to help him get me to orgasm. my main problem is that my ideal position to masturbate is lying on my front, but i can do it on my back, but i mix up my technique a bit. with him, it's hard to know which technique i should be teaching him, and i'm at a bit of a standstill. i feel better for being able to give him an orgasm, so now i guess i'd like to help him make me orgasm, cuz he sed "i'll never b able to make u orgasm" and that worried me.
any advice would be greatly received!!!!
uncreativename
P.S. Sorry this is quite long!
[QUOTE=Quote (lilly2279 @ July 01 2005,11:09)]I know this can be hard for some people, but masterbate for him. show him how you do it. Get worked up. Let him put his hand over your hand to see what you're doing.
Also you can let him finger you, but put your hand over his and show him the pressure/motions you prefer.
you could also be very vocal in saying things like 'softer, harder, slower, faster, circular motions, up and down, etc.[/QUOTE]
yeh we tried that...i got a bit embarrassed but i helped him a bit...problem is i find it difficult myself bringing myself to orgasm lying on my back. i normally do it on my front..:S
we were vocal with each other, but it just didnt seem to do it. i'm worried cuz i just think nething im teaching him wont help. he got me very wet, bt it's not enough. i've tried different techniques myself but i'm at a standstill..i just dont know what i can do cuz my clit can't be touched directly...and he's not used to that idea and i don't know what to do.
will i ever be able to get an orgasm if my clit's so sensitive that it hurts if he rubs it or touches it??!!?
uncreativename
I know this can be hard for some people, but masterbate for him. show him how you do it. Get worked up. Let him put his hand over your hand to see what you're doing.
Also you can let him finger you, but put your hand over his and show him the pressure/motions you prefer.
you could also be very vocal in saying things like 'softer, harder, slower, faster, circular motions, up and down, etc.