i'm a male i got diabetes and don't have any problem getting an erection but can't orgasm,. all of my life when i had sex i would think about roy rogers picture over my bed, it was great, i could last all day and orgasm when i wanted. now i can feel the orgasm building and building AND BUILDING and bang it quits (just like when i thought of roy rogers). when i was in japan i bought a prositude one time and she rubbed something on me and i don't think i got 8 to 10 strokes and i was having a orgasm. anybody know what she put on me or do you have any advice on having a ogasm. this is getting disquisting. HELP