[QUOTE=Quote ]how can i become less embarrased to do stuff infront of him? [/QUOTE]

Comfort usually comes with time. The more time the two of you spend together sexually the more comfortable you will be with him sexually and therefore you will be less embarassed. Maybe instead of just straight out showing him how you do it, you could guide his hands either with your own hands or by telling him what you like. Maybe that would be less embarassing for you.

[QUOTE=Quote ]Anyone know any reason why it hurts when he first enters me? [/QUOTE]

There are a number of reasons but my guess is being tense is a big issue here. The more you tense up the more it's going to hurt. The important thing is to relax and take things slow. The fact that parents are close by is enough to make anyone tense. If there is any way at all to go to a more private location I say you take that chance. If that's not a possibility at all then just try to relax as much as you can and be sure and be patient and take things slow. If either or both of you are getting frustrated that's not going to help matters at all. What you're experiencing is completely normal and there's no need for frustration.

[QUOTE=Quote ]Should i see a doctor? [/QUOTE]

It doesn't sound like there's anything medicaly wrong with you. Like I said before it sounds like you're getting too tense and frustrated which can cause a lot of pain.

[QUOTE=Quote ]Are there any sex positions i could try that dont hurt so much?
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Make sure that you are on top. That way you can control how much of his penis enters you and you can also control the speed. And once you get past the issue of pain and discomfort you will have more control overall and will be more likely to acheive orgasm. Also when you're on top he has better access to your clit and your breasts. This can also help a LOT to get you to acheive orgasm.

[QUOTE=Quote ]How do i tell if he likes going down on me? [/QUOTE]

The only way you can really know is if you ask. Not every guy is vocal while performing oral sex to let you know that they're enjoying it so you'll just have to ask him. My guess is that he must enjoy it to some extent or he wouldn't do it. Some guys don't actually enjoy that act but enjoy giving their partner pleasure.

[QUOTE=Quote ]how do i know i taste ok?[/QUOTE]

Only one way to find out for sure. Taste yourself. Chances are there is nothing at all wrong with your taste as long as your hygenic habits are good. If you are absolutely against tasting yourself then just ask your boyfriend.

[QUOTE=Quote (Dazy @ Dec. 21 2005,16:07)]Hi, Ive only been sexually active for about 4 months with my current boyfriend. No matter how hard he tries i cant have an orgasm with him. Ive done a bit of research and found that it could be a couple of things, like the fact that we never have sex when we are alone in the house because we both live with our parents and they are always in. And the fact that when he goes down on me i always get worried that hes not enjoying it and i get really self concious that i taste bad or something therefore make him stop.
I can reach orgasm by my self and hes asked me to touch myself infront of him so he can see what i like but im way too embarrased to do it.
ALSO it kinda hurts alot when he first enters me, it feels like it did the first time i had sex. Kinda like im to tight for him to fit in, even when im wet and really turned on it hurts, but only for a couple of mins, but thats enough to ruin it for me. Also i think hes to big to fit inside me, he cant go in all the way otherwise it feels like im being stabbed in the stomache and when he goes really rough i get really tight and it hurts.
So anyways a couple of questions, how can i become less embarrased to do stuff infront of him? i want to be able to show him what i like without getting embarrased.
Anyone know any reason why it hurts when he first enters me? Should i see a doctor? Are there any sex positions i could try that dont hurt so much?
How do i tell if he likes going down on me? how do i know i taste ok?[/QUOTE]
you have posted exactly what i posted about 4 months into my relationship...you seem like me...the old me!
what you are describing is totally normal. loads of girls like u will read this and think "same problem!".. u might find my recent post quite interesting:

http://www.sexinfo101.com/cgi-bin....;t=6312

i have only (after 1 yr and a bit of going out with my bf) experienced my first couple of partner given orgasms. read my topic and you might find my coments reassuring. i know it's annoying (i've experienced the same frustration), but u will be able to grow out of self-consciousness i promise. u need to accept yourself and b comfortable in ur own shoes be4 u share ur body with anyone else!

uncreativename

no problem dazy!