Okay... this is wierd, maybe some other girls have had the same problem.
I can't masturbate, never have been able to. I can orgasm with a guy pretty easily... but not sitting around by myself.
It doesn't even really feel all that good, I can't get myself wet at all... it's a bit like not being able to tickle yourself.
Anybody else the same way? Occasionally I'll be laying in bed alone and get horny - but the moment it's ME touching I'm immediately kindof lukewarm about the idea... and 5 minutes later I'd rather be sleeping.
I guess I just keep reading these posts about "teach him what you like by what you do when you're alone" or... "Do you masturbate infront of your man?" It would never occur to me to do that, LMAO.
Just curious.
I'm a bit like that, and i'm so obsessed with sex it's not funny! There's just something so hot about being with my boyfriend, that I dont think is there when i'm alone. Although, we went to a sex shop the other week (illegally, i'm 16 and he's only 17 :P) and we bought a vibrating tongue. Sounds odd, but it's quite good. Now I find it easier to get myself off- it still doesnt feel as good as when i'm with him, but maybe you should try investing in something like that to increase the chances of you getting off.
I'm with you. When I hear suggestions that I should touch myself during sex, I'm like... why??? Or masturbate together? Again... why???? I finally figured out how to masturbate in my 20's, but I have to really get myself mentally going before anything is going to happen. Just touching myself... nah... not gonna feel nuthin'. Glad to know I'm not the only one!
Jenny Kennedy
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