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[QUOTE=ILS;253355][COLOR="blue">ive been having sex with the same girl for over 3months and I haven't made her cum once.[/COLOR]

Each man and woman is responsible for his/her own orgasms. We do not give them away. All any of us can hope to accomplish is to help our partner achieve them.

[COLOR="blue">She claims a guys never made her cum before but i think she might just be saying that to protect my ego. [/COLOR]

The matter has been discussed innumerable times on the forums. There is a small possibility that you are correct; however, what is more likely is that she is telling the truth. Her statement is backed up by all the discussions on the forums over the years as well as articles listed in the Index that discuss the various aspects of female orgasms.

Orgasms are not the biological imperative for females of the species as they are for males. Guys are not only able to masturbate right out of puberty, they do; not so most girls. Very often girls learn much later in life if at all. Learning to masturbate is much more of a conscious decision and effort.

If your girlfriend has yet to learn how to masturbate and enjoy orgasms regularly and consistently, the chances of you causing them to happen are slim to none. If she is enjoying the fruits of masturbation, then she needs to take your fingers and move them like she does her own so you can learn to mimic what she does. The same is true in reverse for her with you. Key to this is in providing feedback on how we are responding to each others caresses and for what we need now/next.

[COLOR="blue">i go down on and everything and during the acts she says im amazing...cool[/color]

Oral and manual stimulation can and usually are exceedingly pleasurable to all, so relish in the fact that she enjoys what you are doing for her.

[color="blue">but she says only she can get herself off....any tips to give her the big O[/COLOR][/QUOTE]

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Perhaps you should believe her.Women tend to be able to manage themselves before they have been able to achieve climax with a partner. She likes what you are doing. She is, apparently, able to reach orgasm. Good start; take your guidance from her.