The best thing you can do before sex is to masturbate to the point of orgasm. That way you won't be so ready to "pop" when you have sex. Also, try wearing a condom if you don't already. I know my ex always lasted longer when he was wearing a condom as opposed to when he didn't. Another thing you can do is ask the girl to slow down...phrase it as a compliment to her, like "you are so good at this you are gonna make me cum quick...lets slow it down" or something to that effect. I doubt she would be offended.
[QUOTE=rdhdliz22;176817]The best thing you can do before sex is to masturbate to the point of orgasm. That way you won't be so ready to "pop" when you have sex. Also, try wearing a condom if you don't already. I know my ex always lasted longer when he was wearing a condom as opposed to when he didn't. Another thing you can do is ask the girl to slow down...phrase it as a compliment to her, like "you are so good at this you are gonna make me cum quick...lets slow it down" or something to that effect. I doubt she would be offended.[/QUOTE]
Aslo, you could actually have a problem when getting aroused by her actions, moans, arching, gasps, etc if that's what you may react to. I know from many perspetives that that can be a very big problem when trying to control. You can try doing one thing though, although it is not very pleasurable - thinking about something stupid. You're doing the work and thinking about how your cheryytree in your yard will blossom in early july and how you knew to steal from your neighbour when you were little. Crap like that. I'd also suggwest using condoms like Durex Perfoma and putting two or three. Although, some say it's dangerous to put 2 or three, I claim it's not. I never had problem with it. Infact, I think that helps a lot and it's pretty safe.
Maybe you can be more specific? Do you mean you orgasm too fast? How long? etc.
No I Mean I Ejaculate To Fast...Like Last Time It was 5 minutes into it...
Read through this, and do a search on the site for the same issue/topic. This is a good place to begin:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/sexual_health_men/19797-squeeze_and_trai...
The best thing you can do before sex is to masturbate to the point of orgasm. That way you won't be so ready to "pop" when you have sex. Also, try wearing a condom if you don't already. I know my ex always lasted longer when he was wearing a condom as opposed to when he didn't. Another thing you can do is ask the girl to slow down...phrase it as a compliment to her, like "you are so good at this you are gonna make me cum quick...lets slow it down" or something to that effect. I doubt she would be offended.
[QUOTE=rdhdliz22;176817]The best thing you can do before sex is to masturbate to the point of orgasm. That way you won't be so ready to "pop" when you have sex. Also, try wearing a condom if you don't already. I know my ex always lasted longer when he was wearing a condom as opposed to when he didn't. Another thing you can do is ask the girl to slow down...phrase it as a compliment to her, like "you are so good at this you are gonna make me cum quick...lets slow it down" or something to that effect. I doubt she would be offended.[/QUOTE]
Aslo, you could actually have a problem when getting aroused by her actions, moans, arching, gasps, etc if that's what you may react to. I know from many perspetives that that can be a very big problem when trying to control. You can try doing one thing though, although it is not very pleasurable - thinking about something stupid. You're doing the work and thinking about how your cheryytree in your yard will blossom in early july and how you knew to steal from your neighbour when you were little. Crap like that. I'd also suggwest using condoms like Durex Perfoma and putting two or three. Although, some say it's dangerous to put 2 or three, I claim it's not. I never had problem with it. Infact, I think that helps a lot and it's pretty safe.