Alright, I almost 15 and I masturbate frequently, but I have never had an orgasm. I am going through puberty now and I thought by now i would be able to, but I can't. Is this a medical problem or something else?
Fri, 06/01/2007 - 01:54
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can't have an orgasm (male)
Are you having wet dreams (ejaculating in your sleep)?
Ah, no. No ejaculation at all.
Hm. You should go to a doctor. That's the best thing you can do. Don't be embarassed, they deal with a lot worse.
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> I almost 15 and I masturbate frequently, but I have never had an orgasm. I am going through puberty now and I thought by now i would be able to, but I can't.
Please clarify what you mean as there is a difference between having an orgasm and ejaculating.
The typical prepubescent boy can masturbate and even orgasm; although the resulting orgasm is much less intense than those experienced as an adult, they can none-the-less be quite enjoyable. While possible, most young boys will not masturbate unless introduced to it by a friend or playmate; or, unless they hear talk of it and curiously explore on their own. That said, every boy and girl explores their body from infancy on up so it is possible that a boy will play with himself and discover that it feels good to touch and manipulate his penis. Masturbation on any sort of frequent basis usually doesn't happen until the hormones begin to kick in.
Jon, you say that you masturbate frequently, and while not yet ejaculating, are you in fact climaxing and enjoying an orgasm at the end of the buildup or do you stroke for a while only to give up in frustration at some point?
If you do climax albeit dry, then eventually when your body is ready, you will be surprised with an ejaculation. If you are having fun stroking and playing around with your penis yet nothing happens in the end, then you might consider prolonging the sessions in order to become more "turned on". (I would also suggest using a lubricant in order to reduce the possibility of chafiing while at the same time intensifying the sensations you feel.)
My first benchmark question for you is do you you experience (spontaneous) erections that just seem to happen frequently and for no reason? My second benchmark question is how frequent is frequently. In other words, how often do you masturbate?
Our mind and body experience pronounced and significant changes as an orgasm approaches.
Our breathing changes and may become deeper and more haulting. We perspire. Our legs and torso stretch, contort, and want to become stiff. Our hand that is doing the stroking generally wants to move faster and faster as the orgasm nears. Our attention and focus zero in on what is happening to our penis and the sensations we are experiencing, while at the same time our awareness of our surroundings narrows. We become unaware of outside sounds, smells, and the world around us just prior to reaching the point of no return and having a climax. Our facial expressions will change as we continue to become aroused. At different points along our arousal curve we may be observed as having a pained expression, frown, smile, strained look, a dazed expression, and in the end a look of devine pleasure and euphoria. Are you experiencing any or all of these things? If not, then you may not be playing around long enough.
Speaking of benchmarks, here is a link to an excellent website for boys. Have a look at this development chart and see how you compare. Please understand that each boy begins maturing at different times and proceeds at his own pace, so what may be typical or average as depicted on some chart, is just that. If you are developing normally, yet your age/development are different from the chart, then just note the difference and expect changes to occur using the timeline that you are on.
http://members.optusnet.com.au/~austbua/physical.htm
I would not be overly concerned about your situation for at least another year; however, when you do masturbate and after becoming all heated and worked up you do not have a dry orgasm, then you might want to have a talk with your family doctor. In the same vain, do not place too much importance in what you hear from your friends. Teens tend to exaggerate and even lie about prowess or sexual exploits, so take what you hear others doing with a few grains of salt.
I hope this is helpful. Got questions?