I've had problems for the past year whenever I have sex, I can not achieve an orgasm. 
I always make sure that my partner is completely satisfied, most of the time with multiple orgasms. Then my partner feels that she let me down, or it is her fault... that is not so. I am very much in love with my girlfriend and we do regular sex, oral or anything else that feels good. We have very good communications about what we want, what feels good and the best way to get the most pleasure out of sex and our love. No matter what, I can get an errection, but it don't stay hard very long.. Has anyone else had problems like this and if so are there any suggestions that may help. I'm on Blood Pressure Meds, I have Type II Diabetes and have it under control with diet and pills.. I just want to cum.
Fri, 09/16/2005 - 16:45
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Can't have Orgasm
Check out this post
Also check out another thread I posted a link for in another thread.
The problem is often referred to as retarded ejaculation
I also might add about this statement
[QUOTE=Quote ]I always make sure that my partner is completely satisfied, most of the time with multiple orgasms. [/QUOTE]
While this is great to do, you can't forget about yourself.
Maybe you are concentrating so much on making her cum that you aren't allowing yourself to relax and enjoy it.
Its not a race or competition, just go w/ the flow.
Its one thing to attend to her needs, its another to forget yours all together
good luck