Alternate oral and manual stimulation...

Also, find the stickey around this site on G-spot stimulation may help you out..good luck!

Yes, Josh, follow Sera's advise.

Everybody's hands, arms, tongue, lips, etc. become tired from time to time.

Alternate or otherwise incorporate a bit of fingering with a bit of oral, do not attempt to rely upon just one activity by itself for too long. Fingering should involve all of the "pieces-parts" of her genitalia, meaning the folds of the Labia Majoria, the shaft of the clitoris buried between them, the Labia Minora, as well as the tip and hood of the clitoris. The outside of the vaginal opening and just inside are richly endowed with sensitive nerve endings. Concentrate some time and effort here as well as the outside of her anus after she has become very highly aroused. Fingering these areas in addition to whatever else you are doing at the same time will augment those other sensations!

> then she just takes care of herself.

There is nothing wrong with his; however, why not learn how to mimic how she masturbates and then either do this for her, or, work in tandom with her in the process.

Here is some additional reading for the two of you:
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?

What she really wants to do is take care of it herself... I say enjoy the ride...

Play with her, eat her and stick her, let her play with her self and blow you and maybe if you are lucky enough, she will cum. When she does just hold her as tight as you can and count your blessings... :p

That sounds like a great time, you are lucky to have that. It sounds like she is ot dissapointed.

> THis may seem like a foolish question but:
Does the kissing really add that much to the experence for the ladies?

Josh, STOP.

I suggest that you read the referenced Sticky Posts before asking any more questions.

-Doc

My tongue gets tired too but the more you do it the longer you can last.

I was licking my girls ass today & my tongue got really tired but i liked it so much i figured it was worth it so i kept on going.

Wow i never heard of a guys tongue getting tired, my guy could stay there from sun up to sun down, hes never complained, ill have to ask him about his tongue getting tired....

My jaw sometimes really really aches, especially when i was first getting into it.

When I was young I had my first girlfriend sat on my face for about 45mins, when it was over my jaw ached like a bitch. *At least she came loads* were my thoughts. Its all worth it to know you did such a good job.

I can see how it can be tiring, I try to go for at least a half hour and can usually help her have 1-2 orgasms. Shifting from oral to manual (fingers) really helps as wel las postioning. It's much easier for my wife to have her legs over my shoulders while she spreads herself open for me. It allows me to have good access without craning my neck.

[QUOTE=Hubby55;169340]What she really wants to do is take care of it herself... I say enjoy the ride...

Play with her, eat her and stick her, let her play with her self and blow you and maybe if you are lucky enough, she will cum. When she does just hold her as tight as you can and count your blessings... :p[/QUOTE]

this isn't necessarily true...for a long time my boyfriend couldn't get me to orgasm through oral sex because his tongue got tired. i would always finish myself off because i wanted to have an orgasm, not because i liked doing it myself better. eventually he learned to tough it out (he actually really does enjoy performing oral sex on me, so please don't take that to mean i'm *forcing* him or anything), and his tongue does not get tired anymore. it just takes practice. learn exactly what she likes and get used to licking her, and you'll both have more fun.

[QUOTE=JOshua;169379]hmmm she loves to make out with me while she's masturbating.
SHe seems to really enjoy it.
THis may seem like a foolish question but:
Does the kissing really add that much to the experence for the ladies?[/QUOTE]

If it makes her enjoy it more, then I'd say yes.

I have a very hard time climaxing if I don't get kissed, too. Lips have a lot of nerve endings and not to mention, it makes us feel closer to you.

when i get tired i have her sit on my face so i dont have to strain my neck and licks/sucks nibbles etc. require less movements. also.. shes usually way wet so actual intercourse is always fun...

I go until a large orgasm is reached... This usually includes a large ejaculation that must be caught with a towel. This can range anywhere from 2 minutes up to an hour. I have the control of how long it takes! I love having the power! It's just a natural thing for a muscle that doesn't get used much to get tired. If I find myself bored and not being watched, I usually wiggle my tongue as fast as I can inside my mouth for as long as time permits me. It may seem silly, but your girl will be thanking you for taking time to work out such an important muscle. Just think of it this way, if you didn't exercise, you would become lazy and sluggish.

I agree. I think it is something that you have to build up to doing longer. I can lick my wife's pussy for at least 20 to 25 minutes. Usually she has to ask me to stop because she is so exhausted from orgasming. I just loving tasting her pussy and licking her so I just put up with the pain in the neck.

I'm the same - I get cramps and sore. But, I lick until I feel my tongue getting tired, then switch to a bit of finger action. I find my tongue is back and ready for action in a few minutes.
Try going softer or using a flat tongue (it works better).
Lately, I've tried this: we bought some sex toys, and I lick her clit while doing her with a small vibrator. The slightly curved one with a g-spot stimulator works the best. She comes and comes, and I don't end up talking like I just came from the dentist.