Ok well last night me and my girlfriend were messing around and she gave me head and wanted to have sex so we got a condom and all and then i had trouble finding the hole. I put it in once but when it came out we couldnt get it in again.. any tips on how to overcome this?
Sun, 09/19/2004 - 21:50
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Can't get penis in her
don't worry, I've had the same problem with my bf, its frustrating, but be patient and don't be too disappointed because everyone has to start somewhere. How we overcame this problem was me taking him and guiding him down from the top of my vagina and directing it downward to the vaginal opening, so what I mean is, there was a bit of pressure when pushing it down past the urethra and then into the vaginal opening, and when she feels it can penetrate then push a little harder, but be very gentle and go slow. Also, try lubricated condoms, because when we were having problems we had no lube, and first time with lube it was fine..
Yep, let her do it. If you're new to this then the less to worry about the better.
Cheers,
Ringo
I believe most women will reach down and guide you in. I certainly do. Ask her to do that.
maybe you should have read through this
Vaginal Opening 101