my gf has never had an orgasm and i really want to give her 1 to show her how amazing they are and how addicting they are, i try and talk to her about it but she just gets pissed at me wen i do and she wont even try doing things herself....iv never had a problem giving girls an orgasm befor and iv had a pretty good amount of sexual partners and shes the first i havent bin able to give an orgasm...i just want her to feel the pleasure because even tho she sais the sex is amazing i no it would be better if she could orgasm...
iv read the forums a million times and iv tryed so many things...i just am so in love with this girl and i want to make her happy....can ne one help me???
You not give orgasms away, you merely assist your partner obtaining the level of satisfaction required. She is responsible for her own. Go back to the index and read about orgasms...I will link you the sites.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/index_sexinfo101_board_topics/22777
Search/read the ones of interest.
Well, if she gets annoyed when you talk about it then she's probably uncomfortable.
Give her some space. Maybe direct her to this website.
It would be a shame if she didn't learn how to please herself.
[QUOTE=sera300;195998]You not give orgasms away, you merely assist your partner obtaining the level of satisfaction required. She is responsible for her own. Go back to the index and read about orgasms...I will link you the sites.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/index_sexinfo101_board_topics/22777
Search/read the ones of interest.[/QUOTE]
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A lot of women can and do enjoy sex without ever having an orgasm. You needn't worry. I know that you want to please her, but dont stres...cuz youll only get down on yourself and itll make you feel worse...try talking to her and being non confrontational about it. Like sera said...you dont give them away....and obviously she doesnt want it if shes not wanting to talk about it.
i understand that she enjoys it an all...........would it work if i asked her to use my hand to explore her clit and other aread to figure out wat felt good since i guess she finds it weird to use her own???????? like use my had as a toy or something
Yes.
How come you didn't read the information in the index link I provided? There are several articles that give information on this.
Several of us have given a lot of our time to providing information on a variety of common albeit important concerns. These are presented in "Sticky" posts that remain at the top of many forums. The Index gives direct access. These Sticky messages were written so that we do not have to write, re-write, and re-re-write answers each time a person writes for info.
On the off chance you do not like searching, here are the links you and she should read. I do hope you enjoy reading, however.
The Anatomy of the Female "O", Answered by Brandye & Dancingdoc2 & Inspired by Godiva
For Women Only- Help! Why Can't He Make Me Orgasm?
Female Sexual Response
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
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[QUOTE]would it work if i asked her to use my hand to explore her clit and other aread to figure out wat felt good since i guess she finds it weird to use her own???????? [/QUOTE]
Perfect idea!
[quote=Ducy;196119]Perfect idea![/quote]The best rudimentary thought would begin reading some of the links provided since this prevents redundancy! Then [OP] can ask away when there is a more focused idea of what help is required!
[QUOTE=sera300;196123]The best rudimentary thought would begin reading some of the links provided since this prevents redundancy! Then [OP] can ask away when there is a more focused idea of what help is required![/QUOTE]
Well yea the best thought would be to begin reading around, But I think that it is a good idea, I mean he cant rely on it forever but it would at least help him see what he is working with, so he isnt just reading all the post and be like....I do what with my finger? or Im supposed to lick where?!?!
Personally, before I do anything I like to test the waters. See whats going on...what I need to learn and improve and then Ill hit the books. Or in this case the other threads:p
Agreed, but starting with the stickey's doc provided will help answer the redundant questions!
haha yeah I just read through them (as a sort of refresher) and I saw it said...have her use your hand to masterbate with...or so to speak lol
Hold out, try something new, rub her clit, maybe even grab her arse during sex, (works for me) and you'll get there