Hi all
I'm kind of new to this all so please be patient with me =)
I've been having sex for a few months now and my bf and I are getting to this stage where we'd like to try new and different positions. Up to now, we've been doing really basic positions where the girl's lying down (missionary, spooning, etc).
But now my bf wants me to be on top, but I can't finish off! I mean, I can probably go at it for like a minute max, but then my hips just suddenly stop after the 1min mark. I don't know what's wrong with me. It's like I can't keep up with the rhythm or something.
Does anyone know what I'm talking about or has experienced this before? Guys and girls?
Any help is much appreciated! :D
Read around. This has been discussed a lot! Basically, if you bob up and down you better be in great shape. Find a leaning position that lets you rock.
Sorry about that! I tried doing a search but not much came up. Thanks for you help though. :)
Does anyone have links to the other threads?
Odd place for my first post but... Everyone has to start somewhere.
Something you might try is having him help you move. You're both looking to feel good, why should you do all the work. Have him put his hands on your hips and guide him to the motions that feel good for you, after a while he'll get the "map" and ask him to start helping you move. Eventually you should be able to relax and he can do most of the work should you get tired.
Welcome to the forum, ErinT! I'm a newb too.
I think my bf's part of the problem though. He holds me at the hips and when he's close to cumming, he would move me up and down too quickly. I obviously can't keep up with the pace because it's too fast and then my hips suddenly jerk to a halt. I always do that and I hate it!
It's like my body can't keep in constant rhythm so it suddenly jerks and stops. Any suggestions how I can stop this from happening?
Practice having his loosen his grip as he comes. All timing and finding what works best for the other person.
If him holding you while he comes makes you lose pace, and even worse hurts, he needs to let go as he comes and let you do the work.
Thanks for the tip!
I haven't seen my bf for a few days but as soon as I do, I'll post back with results. :p