I had sex (for the first time) with my girlfriend and for some reason I could not cum. I lasted forever without finishing. Not even during oral, hand job, or intercourse could I orgasm. Before this I would masturbate nearly daily to porn and could easily cum within 20 minutes. Is this because I'm used to my hand? How can I overcome this? If I stop masturbating will this change? This is really bothering me.
Mon, 10/30/2006 - 03:11
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Can't finish during sex
I know what you mean, with the masterbation part. I'm in the same situation she this girl was giving me dry humps and I couldn't get errect.
If I stop masturbating (divorce the hand) and keep having sex will this problem eventually solve itself? :(
most likely... lay off the hand for a week or so then try have sex and see how you go.. also the more aroused you are the better... so get in a mood and visualise everything and concentrate on the feeling around the genitals and it should help