I believe we have another case of the proverbial cart being placed in front of the horse.

> Then after another 15 min I get it up again and I can go forever without cumming (until she gets tired). I would like to be able to cum again during sex.

We've been reading a lot of late about how guys stroke and stroke and stroke and thrust away seemingly for the longest time in an attempt to reach a climax. Stroking is all about maintaining an already pre-existing high state of arousal; thrusting peaks this and carries the man beyond the point of no return. Whatever happened to kissing, caressing, necking, petting, and heavy petting? All this messing around is designed to get a couple prepared for foreplay and ultimately intercourse. To bypass all this fun stuff or cut it short is to miss out on all the crucial build up. Ya just gotta devote no less than half an hour to all this, more within reason if time permits. Now, after climaxing and during the refractory period, you can continue to make out lightly in order to maintain what level of arousal you are left with. After that ten minutes or so the two of you can begin building your arousal back up to peak, along with any sagging erection, for another climax or two. But, to just re-enter and bang away is generally fruitless and useless. More importantly, most women report that they become tired, bored, and sore, if intercourse lasts longer than about ten minutes. There is a hint in there.

You should know and understand that a person's skin is his/her largest sexual organ. Kiss and caress it all over and do not rush past this important and necessary part of sex. If you want some tips on how to make out, do an advanced search using my name and the key word "inclusive". Learn how to "neck" and "pet" or to make out and then spend lots and lots of time building her passion, as well as yours before moving on to foreplay.

> I am 27, can most guys do this? How do I train myself to do this?

Most guys can enjoy multiple orgasms. How many total depends upon how the person is "wired", and to some extent how much energy he has at the time. Guys are only able to have three or perhaps four when younger; women on the other hand can have half a dozen or many more--and, much closer together. Subsequent orgasms can sometimes be difficult to trigger so you might struggle a bit. There are things to help boost your ability such as having a prostate massage just prior to the triggering of an orgasm, or, squeezing a testicle just prior. There is a fine line between pain and pleasure. Under normal circumstances squeeaing a testicle just enough to cause an ache won't really hurt although it will be annoying. When done when we are at a high state of arousal, that same ache will be perceived by the pleasure center of the brain as pleasurable and give your orgasm a jumpstart. Squeeze or massage while enjoying other forms of caresses. These will augment those other sensations.