Ok, im a guy and me and my GF have been having sex for mabye four or five months. Most times we try to have sex more then once at a time but after i cum the first time I have great diff or just cant period the second time. The first time lasts about 30 to 45 mins and we what 10 to 15 mins to start again, she can cum up to 4 times and I can only cum once most of the time. (very frustrating)
I was just wondering if theirs something I can do or something not being done right?
I have the same problem. I CAN get it up very soon or it stays up all the time, but just can't cum again if the first one wasn't very quick. It feels like I go a little numb down there.
some times my bf cant come more than once just because he is tired! i herd that if you get good sleep you can cum more not sure if that is true or not ??
Hi PO'd,
Well, some guys can and some guys can't. Most of us need a recuperative period of anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour. Even then, it can be more work than the first time. And, of course, the time between orgasms usually increases the older you get.
If your girlfriend wants more orgasms, then simply use other ways to get her there while you rest up. Oral, manual, and even toys can allow you to please her until you are ready to go again.