heyyaa guys,
here my situation: i guess it isn't in teh midst of me having a breakdown, but mea nd my bf have been together for about a year n 2 months, and everytime we have sex or he goes down on me or anything, i just cannot cum. I was ok with it because I've found i get not much from penile thrusting from him, and everything he does feels good, we've tried everything, and i just can't come.
I've directed him in everything he does because he wants me to get something out of it, as he always comes, and its nota state of relaxation coz we're perfectly comfrotable with each other, does anyone have any other suggestions not mentioned above??
thanks guyss
Ok, it said that I couldn't do a new topic, so here's my question. What exactly is it supposed to feel like right before an orgasm?
My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years. I have never had an orgasm. I always felt like I was going to with the legs shaking and light headedness, etc. I also felt like I had to pee, but I always go to the restroom before I have sex. I talked to him about this and he told me to just relax and let it out. I am able to let it out now, but it freaks me out that it comes out like pee. It doesn't smell like pee, it just comes out like pee. Is this normal? Or am I actually peeing on him?
Thanks for any replies.
thanks!
Thats pretty much what I was looking for i think o.o i guess its a communication issue as well.. I'll try to have a talk with my guy next time we talk about it.. 
Thanks again
Check out this post similar to yours
hope it helps
Brandye gives good advice
I have brought myself to orgasm via my thoughts, the first time that happened I had been thinking of having sex with a co-worker for a while and it happened while I was driving, the occasional bumps in the roads made the trip quite interesting to say the least. I haven't experienced this with any of my previous partners even though I find my body more sensitive to the touch of another persons hand verses my own. Time will tell.
hiya, thanks for replying,
yes I have had an orgasm, I can bring myself to orgasm, but everything my guy does cannot, even when I drect him to do it. I'm happy to pleasure him because he comes, but i feel a little like hes using me now, I'm not sure he understands..
I know Brandye has reported the stats, can't remember the percentage now... but some women just can't orgasm... and if they do.. they need clitoral along with penetration (i fall into this category usually as do the majority I think).
Have you even had an orgasm? can you give yourself one?