My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years and we've been having sex for a year and half now. For some reason, I have a problem "finishing" with or without a condom (she's on birth control). I've looked at some other sites for help and they've recommended relaxing and just enjoying the experience and not trying to finish. However, my girlfriend and I are very comfortable with one another and she has no problem pleasing me in other ways (hj, bj, etc). Maybe I have trouble because I masturbate too often? Do any of you have experiences with this? I always feel weird because the guy is supposed to be the one to finish early while I can usually get her to finish 3-4 times in one go-round. Any help is appreciated!
Tue, 03/10/2009 - 03:02
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Can't come to an orgasm
The "friction" in a vagina is less than in a mouth or, especially, a hand. Try some different positions. If you are both relatively trim, have her close her legs and place your legs outside hers. This puts greater pressure on the penis and also causes you to be rubbing some of her best parts.
So you're saying to have my legs on the outside when doing it in the missionary position? By the way we have me on top 90% of the time, her on top about 10. We don't often do different positions but we both want to...any suggestions?